10 Simple and Beautiful Ways to Connect with Your Spirit Guides

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In this blog post I share how to connect to your spirit guides by following 10 steps.

I believe we all have spirit guides, and when you cultivate a relationship with your spirit guides you will receive clear, wise  guidance to help you in every area of your life.

These steps work together to help you establish a relationship with your spirit guides!

My experience with spirit guides

Super Attractor by Gabrielle BernsteinSince I was very young, I’ve felt a presence of spiritual guidance within me, around me and connected to me.

In my book Super Attractor, I open up about spirit guides in a way I never had before. I’d written about Universal guidance and God, but until I sat down to write this book, I’d always held myself back from sharing about the presence of my nonphysical guides.

For many years I was always worried I might freak people out or make someone feel like they had to share my beliefs. But when writing Super Attractor, I felt called to push the metaphysical envelope and speak openly and unapologetically about the spiritual realm. I knew the world was becoming ready to open up to new forms of guidance.

When we become willing to see a world beyond our physical sight, then life becomes easier, we feel safer and we can access our true power.

I’ve grown to rely on these nonphysical guides in every area of my life. Knowing that there is a presence always supporting me has given me unshakable faith and strength. There have been countless moments in my life when I’ve witnessed the divine intervention of my guides.

We all have spirit guides

I'm in awe of the magnificent guidance available to me | Super Attractor card deckHere’s what I believe:

I believe there are beings of the highest truth and compassion working on our behalf to guide our thoughts and energy back to love. They’re not physical and aren’t bound by the natural laws of this world. They’re spiritual beings.

These beings come in many forms and they have different purposes, but their common goal is to help guide us back into alignment with the love of the Universe.

When you get stuck in a fear-based thought or pattern you can turn to your guides to help lead you back to love. When you want to receive their guidance, all you have to do is be willing to surrender your fear and see with spiritual sight.

We all have our own spirit guides. We have guides that are ancestors and deceased family members. Some spirit guides may have names. In some cases you may have a group of guides that all have the same name, like with Esther Hicks and Abraham.

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If you haven’t connected to your spirit guides before, I welcome you to keep an open mind. These 10 simple, beautiful steps will help you cultivate a connection to your spirit guides and deepen your relationship day by day.

If this all sounds a little trippy to you, let me reassure you that your guides are loving and wise. They’re here to support you, and connecting with them is a comforting and joyful experience.

How we experience our spirit guides

Once you begin inviting in your spirit guides, there are different ways you might experience their presence.

Inner knowing

You can experience a spirit guide as an inner knowing. You may feel or sense your guide’s presence, or “hear” a voice within, like a strong intuition or realization. Some people audibly hear (or see) their guides.

Sparks of light

Sparks of light are another indicator of a spirit guide’s presence. Sometimes when I know my guides are with me, I see little sparks of light. It’s so cool to see that light and know there’s a presence with me at that moment!

Books falling off the shelf

When books fall off the shelf, your spirit guides are the ones who are kicking them off for you! I can’t tell you how many people have written to me or spoken to me at an event and said they discovered my book because it literally fell off the shelf in front of them. You can experience this kind of guidance! It is available to you.

Free-writing after meditation

Another way you can experience the presence of a spirit guide is through writing. You can call on your spirit guides through meditation, and following your meditation you can free-write and allow the voice of your guides to work through you.

Connecting to your spirit guides is about learning to rely on the voice of love. The reason these guides are here is to constantly bridge your thoughts from fear back to faith, forgiveness, love and light. They present you with creative solutions and beautiful opportunities.

10 steps to connect to your spirit guides

If you’re ready to invite in that voice of love, follow these 10 steps to connect to your spirit guides.

Step 1: Get into the habit of asking

The first step to connecting with your spirit guides is to get into the habit of asking.

Connect with your spirit guides step 1: Get into the habit of askingWe often forget that we have guidance within us and around us. In the busyness of day-to-day life, it’s really easy to forget this connection.

When we forget that we can call on spirit for help, to call on, we start to rely on our strength. That’s when fear sets in.

Therefore, the first step is to get into the habit of asking your spirit guides for help. The more you ask, the more you receive — period.

Think about all the things that you need help with. Maybe you need help conceiving, or making more money, or healing a relationship that’s struggling.

Make a list of what you need your spirit guides’ help with

Make a list of the 5 to 10 biggest things you need help with. You can do this now, or you can come back to this exercise after aligning with your inner wisdom through prayer or meditation.

Once you make this list, your next step is to offer up everything you need help with and invite your spirit guides to reveal solutions.

Say, “Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing the solutions to these problems.”

Then go through your list.

Some examples…

  • “Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for offering solutions to my issue with my health.”
  • “Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing the solutions to the problems I’m having in my marriage.”
  • “Thank, you guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing the solutions to my struggle with finding a career I love.”

Just go one by one asking the guides to help you. If you want to get really laser focused, you can choose just one and offer it up daily for a while.

Only call in the guides of the highest truth and compassion

Remember always to call in the guides of the highest truth and compassion. You don’t want to invite the funky guides to the party! Be very specific and clear about what kind of guidance you’re calling in so you don’t get any riff-raff coming through.

As with the human world, there are lots of different characters, and we don’t always want to invite every character over for dinner. The same goes for spiritual relationships. We want to open up our consciousness, space and energy only to the guides of the highest truth and compassion.

Don’t worry about this too much. You call the shots, so don’t fear those other beings. They can’t come in without your permission.

You can call on your guides anytime

You don’t have to wait for a problem to crop up in order to call on your spirit guides. Every time I give a talk, the first thing I say backstage to myself is, “Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for speaking through me.”

Whenever I say this silent prayer to call on my guides, I know the words that I need will come through me. The simple act of asking is all that’s required for the guidance to show up.

Step 2: Listen

Connect with your spirit guides step 2: ListenThe second step in connecting to your spirit guides is to listen. The way to do this is by meditating. When you meditate, you quiet your mind so that you can hear the wisdom of the guidance that’s within you and around you.

We have to slow down our vibration to become aligned with the presence of these guides. When we attune our energy to the frequency of love and peace, we can more easily connect to the vibrational messaging of our spirit guides.

Align your energy through prayer and meditation

You can say a prayer such as, “Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion. Thank you for showing me what I need to know. Thank you for leading me in the right direction. Thank you for whatever it is that I need.”

Then you can sit in meditation for 5, 10 or 20 minutes. This can be a very simple meditation. You can simply pay attention to your breath, becoming mindful of the sounds and sensations around you. I also have a spirit guides meditation to help you connect.

Step 3: Write with your spirit guides

Once you’ve meditated, your next step is to write with your spirit guides. Open your journal or just grab a few sheets of paper. At the top, write an invitation to them, such as:

  • Connect with your spirit guides step 3: Write with your spirit guides“Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing to me the solutions to these issues.”
  • “Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing to me whatever you want me to know.”
  • “Dear guides of the highest truth and compassion, I welcome you to write through me now.”

Then simply let your pen flow.

Just riff onto the page, allowing whatever needs to come through. Ideas, stories, topics, inspired visions, things that you may not have thought of on your own, will begin to come forward. Don’t second-guess yourself or edit a word. Just write.

Your guides may speak directly to you

You may find in this writing experience that your guides begin speaking to you directly. Instead of writing in the first person you may begin writing in the second person. When I am channeling my guides they often say, “Dear sister…”

In some cases, your handwriting might even change. You might feel a presence of energy moving through you. That means that there’s a presence that’s working through you to give you direction.

Step 4: Ask for a sign

Connect with your spirit guides step 4: Ask for a signYour guides can play fun games with you! They like to show you that they’re present. So get playful with them and ask them for a sign.

Have you never asked for a sign before? Or have you asked but not known whether you received it? Learn how to ask for a sign and know when you’ve received clear guidance.

You’ll be blown away when you start to ask your guides to show you signs! It will rock your world.

Step 5: Pay attention to the guidance you receive

It’s one thing to ask for guidance. It’s another thing to witness it, to really take it in and relish in the presence that’s supporting you.

Connect with your spirit guides step 5: Pay attention to the guidance you receiveWhen you pay attention to the guidance you receive, you’re letting yourself be in the awe and wonder of all the love that is around you. It’s a big deal. This beautiful feeling is available when you truly let yourself witness of the amazing support that is always with you.

The practice of paying attention to guidance isn’t about demanding. You don’t go around all day asking, “Where’s my guidance? Where’s my guidance?” Instead, you simply allow yourself to be open to the wonder of that guidance.

Your guidance may show up in cool and unexpected ways, even in ways I haven’t mentioned here. Your guidance can show up as a song on the radio, a billboard on the freeway or somebody saying to you exactly what you needed to hear.

Our guides often work through other people. They work through doctors, friends, children and even strangers. Spirit guides love to work through technology, too, which is something I talk more about in Super Attractor.

Step 6: Stay in an energy of gratitude

Connect with your spirit guides step 6: Stay in an energy of gratitudeAs I mentioned in step 5, you want to thank your guides. Rather than being in a place of neediness, you want to be in a place of gratitude and appreciation for their guidance and love.

Shift the way you talk to your guides. If you find yourself thinking things like, “Guides, why haven’t you given me this yet?” or “Guides, I don’t believe in you. Why haven’t you shown up for me faster?” — you’re showing your distrust of them. You’re telling them you’re not really open to their guidance and that you want to be in control.

Your gratitude keeps your relationship strong

Instead, you want to be thanking your guides, appreciating them and feeling deep love and gratitude for them.  When you receive any form of guidance, thank them. Just say silently, “Thank, you guides, for showing me this solution.” Or, “Thank you, guides, for this sign.” And when your guides give you a spiritual assignment, thank them for that as well!

Your gratitude keeps the relationship so strong and keeps those guides present with you all the time, because they know they’re welcome.

When you open your heart to offer your guides gratitude and appreciation, they boomerang that energy right back to you. It’s hard to describe what it feels like to be in this place of constant love and gratitude with your guides. It’s a tremendous and beautiful feeling. And it’s available to you.

Step 7: Release the outcome and trust in a plan better than your own

Connect with your spirit guides step 7: Release the outcome and trust in a plan better than your ownYour guides have a plan that’s better than yours. They’re loving and wise, and they want to bring you to the right relationship, the right career, the doctor you need, the experience that will help you.

We get in the way of that guidance. I’ve often avoided divine guidance by trying to control situations. I’ve obsessed over how things should go and tried to manipulate outcomes to get what I thought was best. Inevitably, this only pushed my guides away.

But… when we let go of our plans and trust in a plan that’s much greater than ours, we start to truly feel like we’re being led. When we surrender, we can feel our guides leading us to the next right action.

We must release outcomes in order to truly be in co-creation with our spirit guides.

Step 8: Be more childlike

Connect with your spirit guides step 8: Be more childlikeIf you have young kids in your life, you may be aware that many children can still see their guides. They may even speak about them. Usually around the age of 7 the veil starts to close and we shut down to this guidance system.

To lift that veil and reconnect with your guides, be more childlike! Do things that bring you joy. Jump on a trampoline. Go for a run. Paint. Swim. Cook. Whenever I’m cooking, I feel the presence of my guides around me.

Do the things that bring you joy, and that guidance will just show up fast. You’ll feel it. Remember, joy is the most powerful vibration we can embody!

Step 9: Ask your spirit guides for their names if you feel called to do so

Connect with your spirit guides step 9: Ask your spirit guides for their namesYou don’t have to do this step. But if you feel called to ask your guide’s name (or multiple guides’ names), ask them to reveal it to you. The first name that comes to mind will be the name of your guide. Even if it sounds strange, you can trust that what you hear is correct.

One of my guides is a guide called Lily, and she came to me many years ago. I just knew her name was Lily. After several years of knowing Lily, I had a medium give me a reading. At the end of the reading, she said, “Lily wants me to tell you thank you, because she loves working with you.” I hadn’t told the medium about Lily or written about this guide. The medium just knew she was there.

Step 10: Trust in your own psychic ability

Connect with your spirit guides step 10: Trust in your own psychic abilityBelieve in yourself and  in your capacity to call on this presence. Trust in your ability to connect to these guides and to feel that support. Know that you have an ever-present energy of love that is always within you and around you supporting you and guiding you.

The more that you trust in your own psychic ability, the more you’ll be able to hear and the more you’ll allow this divine guidance to lead you to the highest good.

Allowing spirit guides into your life is a great gift. Not only will they support you, but they’ll also help you help others. They’ll support you in being a light in the world.

We need this presence of light to support us right now, in the chaos, drama and violence of these times. We need this presence to bring us back to love.

Take this practice further with Super Attractor!

Super Attractor by Gabby BernsteinIn Super Attractor, I lay out the essential methods for manifesting a life beyond your wildest dreams.

This book is a journey of remembering where your true power lies. You’ll learn how to co-create the life you want. You’ll accept that life can flow, that attracting is fun, and that you don’t have to work so hard to get what you want. Most importantly, you’ll feel good. And when you feel good, you give off a presence of joy that elevates everyone around you.

In Super Attractor I push the metaphysical envelope and talk about spirit guides, angels and the spiritual realm in a bigger and bolder way than I’ve ever done before. I break down the different types of guides, share personal stories and offer up more ways to connect with them.

When you order the book you’ll also get my 2-hour Manifesting Jumpstart Workshop free! The steps I teach in this workshop set you up for the powerful methods in the book.

Order Super Attractor and claim your gift!

How to ground yourself after connecting with your spirit guides

When I cultivate a spiritual connection, I can trust the Universe no matter what | Super Attractor card deckWhen you tune into the spirit realm you may feel your energy shift. It’s important to take time to ground yourself after connecting with your spirit guides.

You want to always remember that you are having a human experience and you’re here on this planet in a body. To ground yourself back into your body you can do a few simple things:

  • Stomp your feet to ground yourself into the earth.
  • Sit on a rock to feel connected to the earth.
  • Take time to sit in stillness and drink a cup of tea or eat a snack. Do something that is consciously caring for yourself.
  • You can also zip up your energy. Imagine there’s a zipper at the bottom of your feet and zip yourself up all the way over your head and back down to your ankles.

Follow any one of these practices to get grounded after connecting to your guides.

Connect with your spirit guides regularly

The more you talk to your spirit guides, the more you’ll rely on this ever-present guidance system. As you ask for and surrender to divine guidance, miracles will occur more and more often. (For more, check out my blog post on angels and archangels.)

Your spirit guides want to connect with you. Follow these 10 simple steps to open up the conversation.

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  1. Hi! I have been practicing connecting with my guides for over a year now and have become more keen on trusting their guidance and listening to their messages through journal and meditation. One thing that I have noticed is that when I have called for a specific sign form the universe I haven’t received it. Although, I do receive other very clear signs that I am being guided with synchronicities and inner knowing. Last night for the first time the sign that I asked for over a week ago came to me in my dream. Is this my subconscious presenting it to me because I have been thinking about it or is this a sign from my guides that they are indeed with me?

    1. Great question, Ali. Often when this happens, it’s a sign that our expectations are interfering. When you’re asleep, your conscious mind is at rest and that creates the space for the sign/guidance to come through. Once you ask for your signs, practice releasing your expectations / stop looking for it to appear, and surrender the outcome. https://gabbybernstein.com/how-to-detach-from-outcomes/. And remember, you’re always being guided and protected no matter what. xoxo

  2. Hi Gabby,

    I was woken up this morning by someone/thing tapping 3 times on my lower lip. I thought it was my daughter waking me up because she needed something but when I opened my eyes there was no one there, and I realised that I was home alone because my daughter is staying with her dad.
    Why do spirits wake you up? What is the purpose? This has never happened to me before.

  3. Hello gabby,

    My name is Rachelle. I’ve felt a connection with the spiritual world my whole life. And for a long time now I’ve been seeing repeating numbers, lights, white misty spots, a few orbs and sensations of a presence. It is scary to me even though I’m curious. I have asked a few times for it to stop and leave but then I feel it or see it again. I don’t want to open a door I don’t understand or invite something not friendly into my life. My biggest fear is negative and mean spirits (demons). I do want to be able to be more intuned with the positive guiding energies. Im afraid to start and would really appreciate some kind of guidance myself. I see the numbers 123 all day everyday and would like to know what they be trying to tell me. I had my first baby recently and since him I’ve felt so much anxiety and protectiveness and wonder if that could mean something also. Thank you so much for your time i appreciate it more than you know.

    1. Hi Rachelle, you may want to take a look at a couple of Gabby’s blog posts around angels and spirit guides:


      Additionally, here is passage from Gabby’s book Super Attractor that I think you will find helpful:

      “Being willing to connect with your spirit guides opens the door to guidance, but you want to be conscious not to leave the door wide open for any guide to step in. Think about it like this: You’re throwing a party and you want only the most positive and loving people to show up. Therefore, you make a guest list and are sure not to invite anyone who doesn’t support you.

      Similarly, welcoming your guides into your consciousness requires an invitation. If you’re not clear about the type of guides you’re willing to connect to, then it’s possible to attract lower-vibration beings that do not serve your highest good. You decide who you want to invite to the party that is you. My medium mentors have taught me that the best way to begin connecting to our guides is to recite a prayer. One I commonly say is, Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing to me what I need to know.”

      You can call on a spirit guide of the highest truth and compassion to clear your space and protect you. I also suggest checking out Rebecca Rosen’s blog (rebeccarosen.com) and her book Spirited, as well as MaryAnn DiMarco’s book, Believe, Ask, Act.


  4. I have experienced a loss of the abilities I’ve had before. I used to dream prophetically and symbolically, have visions and intuitions, etc… and for the last many years, nothing. I know I’m still dreaming, but I can’t remember them. I seem to have lost the intuitions, visions and clairvoyance. I sooooo miss it. What can I do to get it back and remember my dreams again?

  5. Hi! I’ve been trying to connect with my spirit guides this past week. I’ve been doing the meditation to invoke the guardian angel. But I feel like I haven’t connected yet. Should I continue doing this meditation daily? Is there another meditation that would also help? I feel like sometimes I’m too in my head during the day and I’m missing the signs….

    Thank you in advance!

    1. Great question, Heather. If we are anticipating or expecting something to happen, it may create an energetic block. Continue to practice the meditation and trust that your guides will come through at the right and perfect time. In the meantime, here are some other ways to connect to your spirit guides: https://gabbybernstein.com/spirit-guides/.
      Additionally, Gabby addresses this on this episode of her Instagram show called #DearGabby: https://www.instagram.com/p/CB04bgYJgnn/.

  6. I read the firststep which I can relate to as a Jew because there is actually a request we can recite to the angles which accompany us to wait patiently for us while we use the bathroom which they do not enter. To thank angels we don’t do because they are only servants therefore we thank the master G-d himself. To thank souls who have helped us maybe its like thanking a living person which we do for ourselves to become a thankful person as well as the giver to encourage them and make them feel good. To pray to a soul or an angle we do not do for they are not in control therefor a request is only made to G-d the one in control -every other entity needs a permision including negative forces or the Satan which is only an angle (and not a fallen one at all but a servant of G-d with a unique purpose in creation). I intend to read the rest but I feel some clarity can be offered from a Jewish standpoint.

    1. Hi Epstein, thank you for raising this point. Gabby incorporates many different teachings, sources and lessons into her work but if you are looking for a clarification specifically from a Jewish standpoint perhaps reaching out to your rabbi would be helpful. xoxo

  7. For the past year I have been trying to connect with spirit guides/guardian angel(s) and seemd to have prevailed….I seem to have connected with an angel(s) along with others who have passed…I just speak to them in my head when walking on the beach and they speak back….I am not sure however, if I am imagining these connections because I want them or if its actually happening. Most recently, I was walking the beach and they were very quiet, I asked why so quiet and they I sensed seriousness and they told me that I was going to have to be strong…insinuating something was to occur. A few days later, our beloved family dog had to be put down, myself, my kids and my ex were devastated….not sure what to think…. can you help me?

  8. Hello!

    I tried to begin my journey a little while ago and came into contact with my spirit guide a few weeks in, but I ran into a bit of a wall. The person I’m living with started an argument after finding my meditation journal, and told me not to bring “demonic” things into the house. Very frustrating.

    I was wondering if you have any knowledge of spirit guides being… upset, feeling hurt, or feeling abandoned if communication is cut off. I never asked my spirit guide’s name, but I knew him to be incredibly safe and to radiate strength and acceptance. I only saw him a few times, but I really miss him. I’m afraid to try to contact again in case he isn’t around anymore.

    What do you think? Do spirit guides stay around for long periods of time? What advice would you give someone who is… instead of coming to this for the first time, returning after a long period of no practice?

    Thank you in advance!

    1. Your spirit guides do not feel hurt or abandoned, they are always there to guide us and support us no matter what. The next time you are ready to return this connection, you can call on your spirit guides, you can use this simple prayer: “Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing to me what I need to know.”

      For more information about spirit guides, I also suggest checking out Rebecca Rosen’s blog (rebeccarosen.com) and her book Spirited, as well as MaryAnn DiMarco’s book, Believe, Ask, Act. xoxo

  9. I work in machine shop. Will my spiritual guides playfully pic on me? Every time I get dirty hands I get itches on my nose,eyes or ears . seems like someone is playing with me.

    1. It’s possible, Thomas. You can try asking your spirit guides to communicate with you in a different way. You can use one or more of the ways included in this blog post as an example! I hope this helps! xoxo

  10. It has been a blessing to read your truth and I’m thankful to have find you. Strange and familiar things have been happening throughout my 36 years of life and lately it has increased tremendously. I Feel that all is coming to me so quickly and intense that most times it overwhelms me. I am constantly reading and searching but can’t point exactly what is it that I’m seeking. My current truth is that I feel ready! Some of the inexplicable things that are happening are:
    I’m hearing Angelical music and mostly when there is water flowing
    I feel the presence of multiple beings that are very near and more than a few times I’ve been able to spot their exact location
    My creativity is at its maximum
    Some of the readings that caught my attention are all about spiritual crystals …there is more!
    All about numerology
    Astrological signs
    Meditation is a challenge for me because my mind is very loud, but it will be tamed
    Animal guides, their take on the spiritual path that I am currently experiencing and wish wish wish upon the greatest power to stay with me.

    I struggle with the authenticity of most of the sites that do have great information but they have clouded their gifts for a lucrative purpose.
    My finances do not allow me to pay them so I can receive their assistance to put it all in order.
    I may be asking for help, would you?
    I requested to have my spiritual guide’s name
    It is Gabriel, I also ask frequently to remain near by often and to provide me with the strength on my daily routine but also I have detected something that’s pushing him away.

    I have so much more happening!!!!
    I own my mistakes, surrendered to all that is part of my plan, this is my last life here in earth! I feel that my purpose has been delayed for unknown reasons.
    Oh lord, I know it is for a higher purpose.

    Must I do it alone? Must I help myself organize all that is happening now? It is heavy but I’m confident that all has A greater angle!!!
    But is hard! Mom needs me, grandma needs me! My partner has lost faith in my ability to love him.
    You have started my awakening because you know I’m ready!
    The world needs US more than ever!

    Who needs my healing

    Why was I so upset mowing the yard under a blasting heat and pushing myself to finish it all, crying!!! I thought that was over

    Do good, be good and move forward!
    Truth will set you free!
    Love is my message!

    Bless me as I bless you all!


    Thank you for reading!
    Beauty in all!

    1. Amazing that Gabby’s work resonates with you. Showing up and sharing here is a sign that you’re ready to experience meaningful change. Keep implementing the steps, being gentle and patient with your process. The universe always delivers, Roberto. xoxo

  11. I just started meditating again& getting to contact with the spirit guides.I love these female spirit guide and they show me signs and I felt their presence.my question is this can they wake u up at any odd hour?i know they but I like confirmation on that.❤️with I send this email

    1. Yes, Dane. Many people believe that waking up in the early hours of the morning signifies a sort of spiritual awakening. So exciting! Sounds like you’re doing great work! xoxo

  12. Thank you so much for the advice that hen you receive guidance you should embrace it and pay attention to it. I have been feeling quite unlike myself lately. I have been feeling exhausted and emotionally drained. Thank you for the advice; I think that I will look into distance healing services that can help me as well.

  13. I just met my spirit guide this morning just before waking up. I tried to meet them 3 days ago with no luck but this morning he showed up just before I woke up. He waved at me in my slumber and I made eye contact and excitedly waved back as though we knew each other. I woke up immediately after and wished I had ask his name. Surreal experiences with the spirit world but I love it so far

  14. I purchased on audible. I listen to super attractor Over and over !! I recommend to everyone I know !!! This book has helped me create belief in myself. To become a super attractor and flourish .. I have complete clarity. Thank you so much for being the vessel and sharing this lifechanging wisdom !!!

    I don’t have the receipt but I would love the workshop please ..

  15. May 28, 2020 AT 0025am
    Lost my daddy just week back on may 19, 2020. Was not able to meet, see or talk to him 10 days before he went as he was in isolation in ICU. Want to know so much as why he suddenly got ill and went away. Want to talk to him and be connected to him always. When can I start to connect with him? Am new to this spirit guides but know for sure they can guide the best. Was too close to my dad and want to connect with him.

    1. I’m deeply sorry for your loss, Puja, and I want you to know that I’m holding you with a lot of love and compassion right now. You may want to check out this additional blog post: https://gabbybernstein.com/spirit-guides-meditation/. It includes a meditation to connect to spirit guides. Additionally, if you would like our grief resources, to help you navigate the feelings that may be coming up for you, please email support@gabbybernstein.com. You’re in our thoughts. xo

      1. Thanks so much for your reply. How to meditate as not able to concentrate. But really want my dad to be my spirit guide forever. Pls guide as to how should I start. Monday will be the 13 th day since he’s gone.

  16. Lost my daddy in 2012 on a work related accident. The work called family just said it was an accident at work but didn’t say how. That night he told me but I said can’t be real . I’ve all ways had a strong connection with my 6 sense and in different ways but I’ve tried disconnecting with it cause of it being hard to control. Now want to reconnect. How can I?

    1. I’m deeply sorry for your loss, Ashely, and am holding you with lots of compassion. Here are some additional posts and practices about how to connect to your spiritual guides and angels:

      I also suggest checking out Rebecca Rosen’s blog (rebeccarosen.com) and her book Spirited, as well as MaryAnn DiMarco’s book, Believe, Ask, Act.



  17. Thank you for your post! I am deeply open and am pretty religious, yet, this is the first I am hearing about this. I still don’t quite know if there is a spirit guide for me. So, I asked for a name and the name Charlie came right to me!! There is so much more I want to learn but as someone who has very little to no knowledge on this topic your 10 steps made crystal clear sense. I worry though, that I may invite a bad spirit in. I wish I could just flip on a switch and see all the spirit guides and talk to them.

    1. Wonderful that you are open to connecting with your spirit guides.

      First, here is a passage from Super Attractor that you might find helpful:
      “Being willing to connect with your spirit guides opens the door to guidance, but you want to be conscious not to leave the door wide open for any guide to step in. Think about it like this: You’re throwing a party and you want only the most positive and loving people to show up. Therefore, you make a guest list and are sure not to invite anyone who doesn’t support you.

      Similarly, welcoming your guides into your consciousness requires an invitation. If you’re not clear about the type of guides you’re willing to connect to, then it’s possible to attract lower-vibration beings that do not serve your highest good. You decide who you want to invite to the party that is you. My medium mentors have taught me that the best way to begin connecting to our guides is to recite a prayer. One I commonly say is, Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing to me what I need to know.”

      You may also want to take a look at a couple of additional blog posts around angels and spirit guides:


    2. Hi Nate! First I want to say that that as believers in the Most High GOD (I assume that’s who/ what you meant when you said you were religious) as such we are guided by the “holy spirit” not just any old one(s) I personally just ask the LORD, the principles are the same. Asking the Lord Brings his guidance and abundance. Ask the LORD and whatever you need will be revealed. Her principles sound the same… Given in an open context without the constraints of any “one religion”. Good Job in that .. The “party” analogy wasn’t my thing.. But hey it may work for someone. Otherwise I thoroughly enjoyed the article, and saved it to come back to.

  18. Hi Gabby,

    I’m just starting on my spiritual journey.

    I followed your steps in your blog ok connecting with your spirit guide.

    As I was reading about asking your guides name, it was like a switch went off in my head. Like a lightbulb moment and the name Kira came to me.

    Is this confirmation of my spirit guide?

    Many thanks.


  19. I find I have a situation with my guides that is a little more unique – it’s almost like we’re a small family. My main spirit guide’s name is Claire. She has told me she has been with me my whole life since birth, but I have only become aware of her presence since 2013. I feel as though I can feel her beside me every day since then. It’s been six and a half; almost seven full years since I have developed this amazing friendship with her. I can tell when she is near as her presence is almost “mother like” in a way. She’s the caring, calm and collected type of spirit. Very much the leader in our group.

    My second guide’s name is Sally. She and I have a very sister like relationship. I can feel Sally’s presence when the air in the room suddenly feels more hyperactive, energized and more of a silly and childlike feel to it that always cheers up any gloomy day. I have only been aware of her for a little more than a year now. But like with Claire, she has informed me that she has always been here but I am just more open to receiving her advice now. Something that really resonated with me as I read your article is that she loves to knock stuff over (just for a joke though, no negative intentions or anything like that).

    One thing that both of them seem to want me to do is to be more open into asking about what I want out of life, but I feel almost guilty for doing this, in a way. I don’t know about you, but I feel as though I would be “using them” if I keep getting accustomed to asking them for stuff. As an example they want me to feel more comfortable in asking them where my “next step in life is” so to say. Any ways that I can get over this guilt feeling? Anyone have similar struggles?

    1. Amazing that you have a strong connection with your spirit guides, Lexi. It might be helpful to reflect on why you are feeling guilty for receiving divine guidance. Here is an exercise that you might find helpful: https://gabbybernstein.com/a-video-lesson-guided-meditation/. Once you identify your fears and limiting beliefs, you can do the work to release them. For example, you can climb to higher thoughts or choose again! xoxo

  20. Hi, i am a beginner means i want to connect with my spirit guide what should i do and how i start i never done any of this thing before.I read somewhere even they can hurt me …is there anything need to protect me from them.. what to do but yes i want help from my spirit guide….

    1. Hi Simran,

      Here is a passage from Gabby’s book Super Attractor that I think you will find helpful:

      “Being willing to connect with your spirit guides opens the door to guidance, but you want to be conscious not to leave the door wide open for any guide to step in. Think about it like this: You’re throwing a party and you want only the most positive and loving people to show up. Therefore, you make a guest list and are sure not to invite anyone who doesn’t support you.

      Similarly, welcoming your guides into your consciousness requires an invitation. If you’re not clear about the type of guides you’re willing to connect to, then it’s possible to attract lower-vibration beings that do not serve your highest good. You decide who you want to invite to the party that is you. My medium mentors have taught me that the best way to begin connecting to our guides is to recite a prayer. One I commonly say is, Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing to me what I need to know.”

      You may also take want to take a look at a couple of Gabby’s blog posts around angels and spirit guides:


  21. Hi, whenever I start to think about spirits and the afterlife it’s like I get this feeling in my forehead… Its like something is opening. Whenever this happens tears fall uncontrollably from my eyes, and I get this Yawn sensation. My hairs all over my body stand on end. I have been able to make this happen to myself since I was a child. Whenever I think about the spirit world, or ghosts or the afterlife. I am at a point in my life where I am in need of the most guidance and help I can get. I feel like I have strong powers within me. I feel a connection to something more. I belive 100%

    1. Thank you for your honest share, Ryan. Here is a passage from Super Attractor that you might find helpful:

      “Being willing to connect with your spirit guides opens the door to guidance, but you want to be conscious not to leave the door wide open for any guide to step in. Think about it like this: You’re throwing a party and you want only the most positive and loving people to show up. Therefore, you make a guest list and are sure not to invite anyone who doesn’t support you.

      Similarly, welcoming your guides into your consciousness requires an invitation. If you’re not clear about the type of guides you’re willing to connect to, then it’s possible to attract lower-vibration beings that do not serve your highest good. You decide who you want to invite to the party that is you. My medium mentors have taught me that the best way to begin connecting to our guides is to recite a prayer. One I commonly say is, Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing to me what I need to know.”

      Here are some additional blog posts to read:
      take a look at a couple of Gabby’s blog posts around angels and spirit guides:


      I also suggest checking out Rebecca Rosen’s blog (rebeccarosen.com) and her book Spirited, as well as MaryAnn DiMarco’s book, Believe, Ask, Act.


  22. thank you so much for this because as a 15 year old girl, i feel as though i have a spirit of some sort in my presence that maybe trying to get my attention.

  23. Reading this is so beautiful. I totally understand what you say. Ive tried and tried to connect but tono avail. Im not sure if im getting the relaxing method right or need to concentrate more. Can you advise

  24. I have been a student of LOA for a few years and have developed a routine that I utilize daily and continue to work on my consistency. I have read a ton of LOA books, but continue to read them for motivation and looking for tidbits I can add to my routine. I picked up Super Attractor and while I was familiar with most of the content, I have always questioned the whole spiritual guide aspect. So I decided that I would push those boundaries based on this reading. I went in with an open mind and connected! It was surreal! Then I followed the advice and asked for a sign to a decision I needed to make. Gabby had said go with the first thing that comes to mind. The first thing that came to me was butterflies. Butterflies??? I figured I would see those anyway on line, but I didn’t question. The next day I was playing a new video game, very dark content. First level there were books lying around in the environment with a butterfly on it and then more butterflies! Then more signs on FB with tons of them! I love these moments and have no question on the decision I will make. I am trusting the universe and not my ego. So thank you for this content, I really enjoyed the book! I think if we truly want to be Super Attractors we need to let go and be open to all possibilities!

  25. Hi Gabby,
    I just ordered your book off of Amazon and can’t wait to read it! There’s a reason I found you and my Spirit Guide may have played a role in it!

  26. Brilliant. I have found your books in so many bric-a-brac stores and turn up in weird places when I say to universe, which book would serve my needs now? Then your books and also Louise Hay stuff, not just in bookstores but little corner shops not many frequent and they’re there so I’m like wow universe you get me these things in strange places. Even a guy a homeless gentleman who is an artist he seen me and hugged me and have me Louise Hay, you can heal your life book. Anyway. Love this stuff. Thanks for being so great and so you

    1. Wow, Jamie! Love it when the universe sends us reminders that we’re being guided and supported. Keep shining your bright light! xo

  27. Hello.
    I am very new to this and English is my second language, so I just wanted to ask you should I talk to them on English or my first language( if that’s what it’s called)? I am having trouble translating “guides of highest truth and compassion” because google translate is bad and it doesn’t sound as beautiful. I should probably follow my gut, but tbh I just don’t know.

    1. Great question, Lora. You can speak to your spirit guides in whatever language is most comfortable for you or even mix English and your native language if you’d like. Trust that your spirit guides know and understand the intentions that you hold in your heart. Sending you big love! xo

  28. Gabby! Thank you so much for your always inspiring and beautiful content you give! It is so much appreciated. I was wondering if you could take a moment and help guide me with a block I been experiencing… after reading (and re-reading Superattractor) I have been very drawn to finding the name for my spirit guide, my personal spirit guide (likening to your “Peter”) The block I am having is the name itself. I can not land on a name. I have been attracted to a half dozen or more 🙂 They seems to fit, and then – not. Any suggestions?

      1. I have followed this post 🙂 I love this post 🙂 … but maybe, it’s not important to land on a name? I feel like the name is holding me back. I get so tripped up on it. Maybe I should just pick one! LOL

  29. Hi Gabby

    I am completely new to the idea of being spiritual. I grew up as a Christian but after leaving my parents house I have been struggling with my faith and what I feel is the right thing to believe, I guess I have been trying just not to think about it. I lost someone very close to me to suicide in December. Towards the end he had a lot of questions about his faith. I have been having trouble dealing with his death and it just feels like something or someone is trying to connect with me but I did not realize what it was until the other for a split second I could of sworn I saw his face in the reflection of a window. I placed it down to being just my imagination but it has been bothering me quite a lot hence I started reading about the difference of being spiritual vs religion. Unfortunately I am a very scared person so opening up to the idea of connecting a spirit scares the heck out of me. I know it is something that only I can figure out but some guidance will be nice.. should I start meditating and how do I stop being scared?

    1. Hi Chantel,

      I’m deeply sorry for your loss and I want you to know that I’m holding you with a lot of love and compassion right now.

      Here is a passage from my book Super Attractor that I hope you will find helpful:

      “Being willing to connect with your spirit guides opens the door to guidance, but you want to be conscious not to leave the door wide open for any guide to step in. Think about it like this: You’re throwing a party and you want only the most positive and loving people to show up. Therefore, you make a guest list and are sure not to invite anyone who doesn’t support you.

      Similarly, welcoming your guides into your consciousness requires an invitation. If you’re not clear about the type of guides you’re willing to connect to, then it’s possible to attract lower-vibration beings that do not serve your highest good. You decide who you want to invite to the party that is you. My medium mentors have taught me that the best way to begin connecting to our guides is to recite a prayer. One I commonly say is, Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing to me what I need to know.”

      If you’re ready to start meditating, here is one for you to try: https://gabbybernstein.com/spirit-guides/

      Finally, I also suggest checking out Rebecca Rosen’s blog (rebeccarosen.com) and her book Spirited, as well as MaryAnn DiMarco’s book, Believe, Ask, Act.

      I hope this helps!

  30. I’m beginning to feel attracted to the unseen but uncertain on how I can do so. Scared of what’ll happen and if I cannot seal the connection. Or if the presence of a spirit is good or bad. I have started a lot of research yet cannot find the right way to help out this spirit as had a review once from a professional communicating person and she said that the spirit is stuck and unable to escape. I wanna help the spirit but it doesn’t want to communicate. The spirit committed suicide and so may not feel a good energy source from him.
    Many thanks, hope you get back to me. 🙂

  31. GABBY! I completed the guardian angel meditation and I heard a name at the end of the meditation – Devin. Then I began writing in a journal words that were NOT my own. Advice and guidance that was flowing through me while I had a large smile on my face observing what was happening. THEN, the next day my sister out of nowhere had a client named Devin and she began singing Devin, D, D, D, Devinnn after the call. Devin is not a common name and she most definitely had never sung a clients name in a random song. That was my sign that he was in fact my guardian angel.

    Thank you for the introduction 🙂

    1. Wow! That’s amazing, Kat! So glad this practice served you and that you experienced this miracle moment. xoxo

  32. Thank you for this beautiful post. I feel as though as I have always had strong “intuition” but the past few months I have been trying to me more open to the ideas that keep popping up and urging me to take action on certain things. I’ve always had an interest in past life regression because for some reason I feel like I am carrying something from my past that I am supposed to know in the present. This led me to reading Dr. Newton’s book about LBL (lives between lives) and much of his research falls completely in line with what you have outlined here about our spirit guides. Even before the chaos of Covid 19 began I’ve was struggling with my relationship with my daughter and mother and have been trying to look for spiritual guidance to help navigate these relationships. I’ve always wanted to meditate, but for some reason I am hesitant. In the past I’ve met with mediums for various reasons, and they also recommended I meditate. However I’m afraid that somehow it could conjure up old, terrifying events*, feelings or worse some malign being. My question to you is: How can I overcome this fear of connecting to the spiritual world? (*As a child I had some very traumatic experiences – when I was 6 my grandmother who lived with us died in front of me and it was a few minutes before anyone noticed I was there. When I was 9 my immediate family, grandmother, uncle and my aunt and her family all saw my grandfather standing outside the kitchen window looking in at us eating lunch after his funeral. Being so young I had no idea how to process these events and coming from and old school, Catholic Italian family there really wasn’t any discussions about them.)

    1. Hi Daniella,

      Here is a passage from my book Super Attractor that you might find helpful:

      “Being willing to connect with your spirit guides opens the door to guidance, but you want to be conscious not to leave the door wide open for any guide to step in. Think about it like this: You’re throwing a party and you want only the most positive and loving people to show up. Therefore, you make a guest list and are sure not to invite anyone who doesn’t support you.

      Similarly, welcoming your guides into your consciousness requires an invitation. If you’re not clear about the type of guides you’re willing to connect to, then it’s possible to attract lower-vibration beings that do not serve your highest good. You decide who you want to invite to the party that is you. My medium mentors have taught me that the best way to begin connecting to our guides is to recite a prayer. One I commonly say is, Thank you, guides of the highest truth and compassion, for revealing to me what I need to know.”

      You can call on a spirit guide of the highest truth and compassion before you begin meditating. I also suggest checking out Rebecca Rosen’s blog (rebeccarosen.com) and her book Spirited, as well as MaryAnn DiMarco’s book, Believe, Ask, Act.

      You may also want to check out these additional blog posts:


  33. Gabby, Thank you so much for your guidance, most of it free, during the Covid 19 Pandemic as it is so helpful as we move from anxiety to coming back to our spiritual tools. The owner of the Yoga Studio I attend has been working tirelessly to ensure folks have plenty of opportunities to continue in their practice, she provides us with a community coffee on zoom every morning, and she is doing the best she can to pay her teachers. Because she’s giving so much, the Universe rewarded her and she, her studio and how she’s making it during a pandemic as a small business owner (she bought the studio three months ago and now it’s closed due to Covid 19), with an article in Fortune Magazine. This made me think of you and how often you say “What can I do for the highest good”? So thank you.

  34. Gabby. Thanks so much for all your guidance. What I am learning through your books and blogs has been very helpful and I am growing daily.

  35. Hi Gabby, thank you for all your work. Lately, I have been attracted to your work. I have a question. Is it possible to communicate with a family member that passed away through these 10 steps? thank you again.

  36. Dear Earthly Angel Gabby,

    I have a question regarding the asking for a name of guardian angel. When I was meditating on connecting with spirit guides of highest good after I read this blog, I saw deceased great grand mother-in-law giving me a lovely smile and when I reached to the phase to ask name, I hear an inner voice saying “Saimaa”. In Hindi, “maa” means mother and Sai, I believe to be my guru’s name. In reality, there is no such spiritual entity called Saimaa so my question for you is should I call upon Saimaa and write this name in my journal or should I keep writing guardian angels/ spirit guide of highest truth and compassion?

    I have enrolled myself for 29th March and looking forward to attend the session.

    All good wishes for you <3

  37. Hi,
    Thank you so much,I have learned so much from you,even my guardian angel is with you cos you’ve guide me through her,I said it again thank you from the bottom of my heart!

    1. You’re welcome, Khairana. I’m glad that you’ve connected with your spirit guide. Sending you big love. xo

  38. Thank you so much, Gabby! This article really helped me. I feel my spiritual awakening started three years ago and I am still I’m the process. I have finally been acknowledging spiritual signs and starting to “do the work” instead of just wringing my hands and wondering “what does it all mean”? Meditation is the KEY!

  39. After watching a video of yours on youtube, I got excited to try meditation before going to sleep. I got on my bed and prayed thanking asking signs from God, holy spirit, angels and spirit guides. After that I started meditating and I saw two types of lights with minutes of interval between them. The first one was a flicker or flash of green colour then the second one was white. It wasn’t my first time meditating last night but it was the first time that I saw lights which i won’t question since it was already late at night and no electrical lights near were on. I just wanted to say thank you for the inspiration!

    1. You’re welcome, Peter. I’m glad this practice is serving you! May you continue to experience miraculous shifts. xoxo

  40. Hi gabby,

    I have a feeling that spirts from the other side are trying to connect with me. will you be able to tell me the signs of how they are trying to connect with me ? For example i’ve experienced light flickering at times at home, seeing butterflies, a feeling of something behind me, dreams with certain numbers. can you help in anyway ?

  41. I dreamt about my ancestor dressed in a white roman army garment and some other dreams.But I don’t have such dreams anymore.I just don’t know what happened.

  42. This is the first time I have tried journaling after meditating and I found nothing came through. Would there be a reason for that?

    1. Sometimes our spirit guides do not come through when we want or expect them too. Even if you don’t see/hear/feel them, you are always being supported. Know that this is a practice, just like learning anything else new. xo

  43. Amazing insight and spot on with this blog post. Learning to ground ones self is super important, especially for me it was needed. So funny sometimes during meditation I get these insights that come racing in. So, I have learned to keep a pen and pad next to me to write things down. I can honestly say what comes out is beautiful, loving and helpful. I’m on day number 19 of my gratitude tour. Each morning I ask my guides to prepare me to receive a message of whatever it is I may need to learn, see etc.. and be a radiant light of love, joy and peace for whoever needs that loving energy for the day. I have met so many wonderful souls who just come up and share there stories of life with me and others giving me positive words of encouragement. But mostly I see people just look at me with a kind of wonderment! Thanks Gabby! 🙂

    1. Amazing, Marcus. I’m glad that this meditation resonates with you and that you’ve accepted the call to serve in this way! Keep shining your bright light! xoxo

  44. This post by Itself is a message I have been experiencing new ways of connection with myself and the universe around me. I am living the past year in a beautiful state of Awe and have never felt more powerless and empowered at the same time in all my life. I trust, I appreciate, I give up control and I breathe in the moment
    Thank you Gabby for guiding my way to expansion ❤️

  45. This is so wild. I have read super attractor and in the process of finishing the Universe has your back. This is the first time I tried to speak to my spirit guide “officially” via meditation.

    When I asked their name the words “Beth Shalim” came in my mind. And I was like well that’s a weird name. Lol. Then when it was time to free write I only saw pictures. A house in the Forrest with a stream.

    Then my 3 year old daughter walked in playing with some of her dolls. I heard her say “Why?!? Then while playing with her dolls she said “you need to wake up, I am right here! I need help in the sky!” At first I was annoyed and then it hit me, I think my spirit guide was speaking to HER to pass on a message to me. Then she came up to me, put her hand on my knee and said “taking deep breaths?” I looked at her and said “yes” and she said “good, one more time” and so I did. Ummm what just happened?!?

    Also googled Beth Shalim (i am not Jewish whatsoever because this didn’t even dawn on me) and saw that there is a version of Shalom that is Sholoim and it means peace, harmony, wholeness, completeness, prosperity, welfare and tranquility also means hello and goodbye. And then Beth means house? Not sure, if anyone knows maybe they can tell me? But what a wonderful message to get! And makes so much sense!

    1. Amazing, Tiffany! Our spirit guides often speak to us in creative way! Love that you are open to receive the message! xoxo

  46. Thank you Gabby. I have felt the guidance. I appreciate the presence, i am not asking for anything, but its very comforting to know its there. Always appreciate your positivity as this journey continues.

  47. Dear Gabby,

    Thank you for this wonderful blogpost . Timing is everything. Recently we felt the miraculous presence of my deceased father in law guide during the labor and delivery of my sister in law’s baby. I performed Reiki on her and grounded the space and encouraged his guidance. As a physician, there were some labor issues that may have precipitated surgical intervention but instead serving as a coach and doula , my sister in law and her beautiful new boy were delivered naturally without any risks. We were told his presence was to ensure a smooth delivery and also cleared the cord issues by an empath/medium. It was most beautiful experience and his grandson also bears striking resemblance. Grateful for his presence in my life.

  48. You are alike my true self, and i have recently been drawn to Ester and Dr Wayne, and it seems you have too, for a while now. I have fallen down again, but as i know this struggle all too well, i will be able to not be ‘as critical and hard on myself ‘ as before. I trust in my healing process, and so thanks to you and your inner guides, i’ll make sure to process and practice the above methods. I recently heard more from my guides than ever before, i know that my energy has been better allowing love to spread, especially when i have been thinking around the lines of aiding others with light and wisdom. It became clear that i should keep aligning with the purpose of being of service to others, and their highest potential. Bc i have witnessed, and pulled myself up from being a complete and utter mess, and almost lost cause, because of judgment and a history in my home town that i am not happy with. I know i could do anything i set my mind to, and i feel the ever – present passion finding it’s way back up to the surface! i am so thankful for me being drawn to you… i see you! also i most appreciate your being and sole purpose to share your earnings through the path. Blessings, may the world give back to you in abundance Gabby! Live on sistren!

    1. Thank you for your honest share, Wesley. It sounds like you experienced some miraculous shifts. Keep implementing the practices, being gentle and patient with the process! You’re doing great work. Sending positive vibes! xoxo

  49. Gabby,
    This was wonderful. I do a lot of soul/spirit writing. I love as I write the pen just takes over.
    I now know what I need to do to ask the names of my guides.
    Thank you for sharing your beautiful messages.

  50. Hi Gabby
    I have been guided to you and have read The Universe has you back and Super Attractor. It has been miraculous for me! I stopped sleeping in November of 2018 from the overwhelm of life and I looked for everything external to help me. Nothing did. Until I started reading your books and realized that help has to come from within. Your books have been a miracle for me and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for helping me open my heart and mind to the knowledge that I AM supported and the Universe really DOES have my back. I truly believe that

    1. Amazing, Tanuja! I’m so grateful that you experienced this energetic shift and that my books are serving you! xoxo

  51. This was just what I needed to remind me to connect with the loving Spirits of the Universe. I’ve been having trouble trusting in being happy, because my life is going really well and I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. I need to ask my Guides for help with this! Thanks Gabby!

  52. Hi Gabby, I get your emails but haven’t been reading them lately until today, the title “want to meet your spirit guides” caught my attention. I lost my daughter in July and have been in “survival mode” just going through the motions to make it through the day ever since, definitely not present in the world. But today I followed your steps to meet my spirit guides and I think I felt the presence of my daughter holding my hand telling me she is proud of me, but then again I have a hard time knowing if it’s just my imagination trying to make me feel better?? My friend tells me she can feel Kylees presence when she comes over and my 2 year old nephew was running by her room stopped and looked in there waved and said “hi!” Maybe I am trying too hard to feel her so I am not by controlling the situation? Any advice?

    1. I’m so sorry for your loss, Vanji. I think you answered your own question when you wrote, “Maybe I’m trying too hard to feel her.” That’s understandable. Part of the grieving process may be letting go of the need to control the outcome and trusting that you will feel your daughter’s presence at the most right and perfect moments. Sending you much love. xoxo

  53. Good Afternoon, Gabby! Thank you so much for sharing these steps with us! I’m excited to foster a deeper connection with my Spirit Guides – to know them much more intimately. This blog post is so timely, and I receive this “cooperative incident” loud & clear! Thank you for your service to all humanity!! XOXO

  54. Woke up to this email . Between this blog post and the ones in the links while reading. You answered every question I’ve had over the last few weeks about my guides, speaking to them, and hearing/feeling them. I’m very very grateful for this this morning. And when I first opened my eyes this morning I was having trouble feeling good. Thank you Gabby, universe and my guides

    1. Fantastic, Victoria. So grateful that you were guided to the resources that you were hoping for! xoxo

  55. Tomorrow I am going to a Psychic medium who specializes in guidance with angels. I’m so excited! I’m open to the connection, but feeling like I need a little more help. Thank you for the inspiration through your sharing in the book Super Attractor.

  56. The idea of spirit guides had made me confused in the past until I read the super attractor . As I listened and read the book I felt an ease and acceptance of my guidance for first time in life. Super attractor was my first book and work of Gabby that I was called to purchase and has been such a wonderful journey.

    Thank you Gabby for your love and light and am hoping to start living my dreams sooner and starting this year. I had quit my IT job in 2018 to be available for my kids and Since then my love for books and personal development has taken me to a totally new plane.

    In this journey ,Super attractor has given me a great hope and confidence to believe and start the journey of living my dream business and life. Thank you for all that you do and wishing to share my success story with you and all your followers in a big way sometime soon.

    1. Amazing, Anisha. So glad that you experienced this miraculous shift! May you continue to experience many more! Can’t wait to hear your success story! You can always share on the blog, social media, or send an email to support@gabbybernstein.com! xoxo

  57. Is there going to be an Mobile app for the super attractor card deck like the universe has your back ?

  58. I have Super Attractor on my phone through the Audible app, and I LOVE it, as I can play it for a few minutes here and there during my busy day. There are so many messages of wisdom that pop out at just the right time for me. Thank-you for sharing this book!

  59. Hi Gabby,
    I read with enthusiasm, The Universe Has Your Back. Apparently I had been receiving signs previously and didn’t connect the dots. Now I know when I see or hear a sign from the Divine. Sometimes they come to me in abundance, and sometimes I feel stagnant. It’s as if when I really want one, I don’t, and then out of the blue, there it is. About a year ago I got into my car and a feather was floating in the passenger seat. That’s when I began exploring what it could mean and came upon your website. Before and since I have received numerous feathers and other signs typically when I’m not expecting it. Recently I haven’t seen as many signs as before. It makes me sad, and almost lonesome. Maybe I’m “looking” too hard. After reading your steps, I am optimistic that my guides will present me with what I absolutely need. Thank you!

    1. Thank you for sharing your experience, Annalee. Whether or not you see the signs– you are always being guided and supported! Continue inviting in divine guidance and staying open to receive the message! xoxo

  60. Thank you for this Gabby! I’ve been leaning on my guides and angels quite a bit lately and this is so helpful on how to really refine the practice of calling on them for help. xx

  61. Thank you Gabby! And for anyone else reading these posts, trust me – this works. After participating in Gabby’s 21-Day Manifesting Challenge and reading Super Attractor, for the first time, I connected to my Spirit Guide in a beautiful and extraordinary way. 10 days later a book poured through me directly from Spirit — and I’m not even a writer! Gabby has helped me connect with my calling. I found my “shine” and it is now my work to help others find theirs. It’s a gift what Gabby does, truly. The loving and uplifting messages Spirit has for ALL of us are to be relished.

    Big love to you Gabby!

      1. Thank you so much for the work you do and the Light you bring to this world. I found your book through guidance I was only just beginning to understand and it has taken my spiritual journey to a whole new level. Thank you

  62. No coincidence, but I was just reading this chapter in Super Attractor this morning! Clearly I’m receiving guidance from my spirit guides, at the time when I need it. Thank you, Gabby!

    1. Last night I prayed for guidance and asked for help in recognizing when I am getting the answers I seek. I had not done that for several months. This morning I received the email regarding the spirit guides Blog. I know this is a sign. I was overjoyed to know that I had been heard and that someone is watching over me.

  63. Hi Gabby,

    I’m in the middle of reading your book – The universe has your back and I’m really enjoying it, thank you so much for writing it. I wanted to share that after A recent struggle with depression I knew I had to make some changes and reconnecting with spirit was a huge part of this change. Following direction from your book, two days ago I asked for a sign. My sign is those white Flying thistle seeds that float in the air, whenever I see one I always think of my father who died suddenly two years ago. Anyway, I was at a really low point and needed something to drag me out of the terrible space I was sitting in so I asked to see just one to remind me that the universe does have my back. The next day I was in a car with my friend travelling home after a hike and there were literally hundreds floating in the sky and they keep appearing for twenty minutes as we drove. My hair stood on end and I had tears in my eyes…. I was just so grateful for this overt display by the universe that felt like it was just for me. I shared this story with a few friends but I really wanted to share it with you because your words inspired it and it meant a lot to me.

    Thank you Gabby (and the universe)

    Claire x

    1. Amazing, Claire. So grateful that The Universe Has Your Back is resonating with you and that you’ve experienced this miracle moment. It was absolutely for you. You are always being guided and supported! xo

  64. You really are a very beautiful lady that has been sent from above. Whenever I need help or have asked for help your blog alway arrives and just what I needed to hear and understand or just now the reassurance of what I asked re: signs.
    Thank you with all my heart X

  65. Thank you very much for these magnificent informations!!I have read and practise before about my guides. .. but your writing has an enthusiasm and a divine touch.. I am so grateful…. God bless every step of your life ❤
    P s The informations about Grounding are so neccesary.. thank you

  66. Thankyou for your guidance Gabby. Your blogs seem to find me whenever i am needing some clarity or guidance. It is so nice to read and feel more connected and know that iam being supported and i can achieve my desires. Thankyou for the clarity , guidance and energy.

  67. Hi, Gabby!
    Thank you so much for this post.
    I’d like to ask you something. Lately I’ve been thinking about changing my career (I feel I’m stuck, not actually enjoying my job anymore). As I feel a little bit lost, I ask the Universe for a sign but I’ve recieved none so I guessed the Universe is telling me to wait for this career change. The thing is I’d love to do this change, I really feel I should do it. Which voice should I hear, my inner voice or the Universe’s?

    Thank you!
    Lots of light,

    1. Estela, whenever you are feeling unclear of what direction you are being guided, return to a spiritual practice like prayer or meditation for grounding and clarity. The quickest way to move into a job you love is to cultivate appreciation for the job you have right now. Appreciation shifts your energy in every way. I use this exact example (wanting a new job) in a blog post I wrote about how to attract what you want by appreciating what you have now. I think it will resonate with you: https://gabbybernstein.com/key-attracting-want-appreciate-now/

  68. Hi Gabby,

    I found you on YouTube as I’m searching on How To Connect with spiritual guidance!

    I have a question

    I’m a Thai person but live in UK so you know most of the time I will be speaking, Reading and listening in English but I when I do Live or teaching on Social Media will be in Thai.
    Talking to friends and family also in Thai.

    So I’m using 2 languages at the same time!

    I’m wondering which language to use to ask or speak to my spiritual guide?

    Thai or English?

    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you and I love you ❤️❤️❤️

    1. Great question, Annie. When speaking to your spirit guides, use whatever language is most comfortable and natural to you! xoxo

  69. Hi Gabby,
    On an almost daily basis, and sometimes twice a day, I glance at a clock or phone for the time. I do this out of no specific desire to need to know what the time is, it is an involuntary reaction. The odd thing is how often, and I mean very often, the time will be 11:11. I heard it is not uncommon and my research shows it has spiritual connections. Your thoughts?
    Thank you.

  70. There is so much that I have felt after learning to connect with the universe and my spirit guides. I’ve had some amazing experience that makes me want to jump for joy. I try to learn more on this subject more and more every day and also doing so by listening to your books on audible. I am so eager to see how this path will feel and where this path will take me in the future. I am so inspired and want to thank you for taking the time to do what you do. Thank you!

    1. Wonderful, Hannah. I’m so grateful these practices resonate with you. It sounds like you’ve experienced some beautiful energetic shifts! xo

  71. So I am new to you and very excited. I’ve just downloaded your new books on Audible however I did not receive the free Manifesting Jumpstart Workshop. How do I get that?
    Many Blessings,

  72. I am going through a very difficult period in my life. I have been looking for guidance and some inspiration to get to the path I need to be on. I have asked everyday for my spirit guides family members to help guide and protect me. The light in the kitchen keeps going brighter occasionally. Am so need of their support and preyed they will send it.

  73. Dear Gabrielle

    Thank you for your wonderful work.
    I have a question, where do we draw a line between following the rules of being specific about what we want to manifest VS surrendering and letting go?
    I find it contradicting to follow the concept of being specific to ask for what we want and then we have to surrender and let go of what we think we want. It would very helpful if you can explain and I think that would be a very popular post as nobody like Abraham, Oprah or Wayne Dyer has done the comparison yet.

    Love and light

  74. Going through so much in my life, trying to find myself and my way in life, and how to have better energy I read this article this morning. Tonight I kept getting aFB message alert, but had 0 new messages. Finally I scrolled way down to my oldest message (2010) and had a blue dot for a new message from a close, deceased friend. There wasn’t a new message just the alert. I read through all of our old messages and the alerts went away. I felt so lifted after this. It was an amazing feeling. I believe he was telling me that things will be ok. Thank you.

  75. Hi Gabby
    Merry Christmas. I bought your Super Attractor book for myself for Christmas and have been reading a chapter a day. It’s fabulous and I am loving it. In chapter 5 – it says I can download for free the meditation for lifting the veil – but I can’t find this anywhere. Can you please send me the link?
    Thank you for sharing your gift.

  76. Hello, my name is Walter and I am from Uruguay, a small country in Latin America. You might find it a dare … but I would like to know if there can be any discount bonus to take the 21-day course that begins in January. My economic possibilities are few and my desires to advance in life many. Again I apologize, but if there were such a possibility, it would be for me almost “a miracle.” I don’t speak English, I use the translator. Sorry for the mistakes. Thank you very much and blessings. Walter

  77. Hello. So for a while I was trying to find my spirit animal. I have read through a few of your spirit animal websites and I tried them out. I think my spirit animal is a wolf. I read a website (maybe your but I don’t remember) about naming you spirit animal. I ended up naming it and my spirit animal seemed to approve. Meaning, I didn’t get a sign from them saying that they weren’t happy with the name. After I named my spirit animal I kept asking them to appear in a dream or to give me a sign that shows me that they are here. I haven’t gotten a dream or anything like that yet, but a couple things have happened. On the days that I ask my spirit animal to send me a sign I usually get it before I go to bed. I’ll get in bed and thats when the door will make a little click sound. And sometimes it happened when I’m thinking about my spirit animal. At first I thought that it was just someone closing it, but when I read your website about spirit animals I began wondering if it was from my spirit animal. It has happened a couple times. Do you think it’s a sign from my spirit animal? If it is, what does it mean? Does it mean that they are looking out for me? I’m not sure because my spirit animal doesn’t interact with me like other people. For example it doesn’t show up in dreams, I don’t get signs (except for maybe what I wrote above), and it doesn’t do anything that helps me determine what it is or if it’s looking after me. What do you think? Can you help me?

    1. If you are unclear of what you’re being guided towards, return to your prayer and meditation practice to help you get grounded. Big shifts are possible when we truly believe. xo

  78. Thank you for this post, I believe I was guided here by my spirit guide, I met my spirit guide a few days ago with your guided mediation. So glad she led me here to you.

  79. Thank you so much for this, Gabrielle. I have been told time and again that I have guides. However, I was never quite sure how/what to do in terms of connecting with them. I do meditate and journal my thoughts and feelings afterwards, I didn’t know this was a way to connect with my guides. Still have questions and seeking answers, but this piece is so encouraging,
    Thank you!

  80. Is it possible to see a number sign that is not same numbers in a sequence? So I saw a medium in August. She predicted big things birthday to birthday. My birthday is 9-07. I met a man on 9-07. We have since had some issues. I on 11:11 did your meditation. Started out crying, felt my hand being held. Didn’t really get anything flowing with the writing. The next day, felt better. Yesterday felt so positive about him and I coming back into contact. A strong, overwhelming confidence about it. It is what I’ve been asking for guidance with… I saw 9-07 twice yesterday- I know 3’s are usually a sign… But what is your take?

    1. Yes Courtney it is possible. When you are unclear of what you’re being guided towards, return to a prayer and meditation practice to help you get grounded. Big shifts are possible when we truly believe. xo

  81. This was a beautiful reading and it was exactly what I needed to hear tonight! Well I think everyone should read this lol Thank you so much

  82. This is scary because it’s my first time and I don’t want to mess up. You said “You don’t want to invite the funky guides to the party!” I’m not good with my wording but I have been practicing. I got this because I think I’ve seen my spirit guides I always see this sparkle light on the side of my eyes or I hear someone calling my name. Thank you for this information it was very helpful.

  83. Hello, So I was wondering, do you think that it may be possible that my spirit guide can show up in a dream? Because last night I was having a dream that I was struggling with something and a man showed up and was helping me out. He vanished for a bit but when I went to search for him again, we saw a glimpse of each other and then he followed me to a building where he then proceeded to comfort me by saying,” You’re okay, you’re okay. Everything is going to be alright,” while he embraced me. It could have just been a dream with no meaning at all, but I just found it a bit coincidental since recently I have been dealing with something and waking up just knowing that someone was there as comfort led me to believe that what he was saying was true and that everything would be alright. So I began to research and this is the first thing that stood out to me so I thought I might ask.

    1. Montana,

      Be open to all the beautiful ways in which your Spirit Guides can appear. They can and will communicate with you in whatever ways will resonate with you. Meditation will be a great tool for you, to help you feel grounded, to get clarity, and to allow yourself to go deeper into that connection. xxoo

  84. Hello. I was just wondering if you could connect through your spirit guides with objects and such. Should I be able to ask upon them if they can connect through me with a device, object, toy, and Maybe even an insect or animal? Or should I just connect through pen and paper? I’m not to keen on having them connect through me with a voice in my head or having an orb appear.
    – Hannah

    1. Your guides can and will communicate with you in whatever ways will resonate with you. This can include through animals, through a billboard you see while driving, an object you come across unexpectedly and so on.

  85. I am new to the idea of spirit guides. I am an empath, and consider myself to be a light physic. (That’s what I call it anyway). I went to a mediumship development this week, and everyone was speaking of spirit guides. Personally, I don’t sense any around anyone. So since I am an empath, etc. why haven’t I experienced this in the path. While reading this article with good intentions, I decided mid-way to close my eyes and cover them to create total darkness (I have never meditated). I did this with the thinking of calming myself and being open; and furthermore inviting spirit guides into my life. The moment I shut my eyes the word Doris came to my mind. I wasn’t even trying to think of a name. Does that mean this is the name of my main spirit guide? What if I don’t have spirit guides. I’m so confused.

    1. Hi Jenifer. This sounds like a sign and could be communication from a guide. Meditation will be a great tool for you, to help you feel grounded, to get clarity, and to allow yourself to go deeper into that connection. Keep trusting that inner wisdom. It might feel good to ask questions out loud, declaring that you are open only to signs from a place of love, for the greatest good for all. <3

  86. Hello,

    I am just curious what your thoughts are on an experience I had as a child. The Saint Katharine Drexel shrine was in my town, only recently moved, and was a spot for field trips. I believe I was in 7th grade when we went. We actually went to the room where her tomb was, and were told to place our hands on it. Only a moment after I did so, I started to feel odd. My vision was going blurry, my hearing was drowned out, and I couldn’t speak. I knew where I was, I could tell there were people around me. Classmates started to notice and were trying to talk to me, I could tell they were saying my name and asking if I was Ok but it was like I was under water. I think I was on the verge of passing out. My mom wound up picking me up. I forgot about this experience for a few years in my life, and then it came back to me as an adult. Do you think she could be one of my guides, that this interaction meant something more? I used to think it as a child.. but then I got lost in life. I think of it as an adult, and feel like it must have meant something more. I am curious of your thoughts. I work hard every day over the past few years to be more conscious, a better person, and use your methods. I have found so much more joy, but still feel like I am blocking myself in many ways from seeing where the real me is supposed to be in life. Thanks for reading, and for any input you have 🙂

    1. Hi Colleen. This sounds like a memory of connecting with a guide. However, know that our guides will only come from a place of love and protection. To tap into that connection, sit in meditation and even communicate out loud, calling in that guidance. It’s helpful to declare that you’re calling in only what is from a place of love and for the greatest good. XOX

  87. i need help regarding my career. i have been in the interviews every month since April 2019 till August 2019 but i do not get any luck. what may be the problem.

    1. Beautiful Erika! Commit to practicing the steps in this blog and be open to all the ways that you signs may present themselves. It’s amazing what can happen when we open ourselves up to even the smallest miracles!

  88. Thanks for this, I need to call on them more often. I feel ike I am on a better track and I am more grateful and am happy to take a leap of faith into a new endeavor….


  89. Hi, I’m afraid to post this, but I need help.

    I found your site after beginning a search for a spiritual/medium mentor, and you mentioned we should reach out if there was a frightening experience after attempting to connect with our guides…so I’m reaching out for help and guidance to understand what happened and to not be afraid.

    I’ve been able to sense/see/feel/hear spirits and energies my entire life, with some ability to know/predict and manifest things naturally, without consciously trying.

    Recently I’ve decided I want to learn to develop this part of me, instead of being afraid of it, which is how I found you and your site and books. For the last week I’ve been asking the guides of the highest truth and compassion to come through, and last night I was woken up by a bright white orb, with pulsating light reaching toward me, just over my bed, about an arm’s length away from my face. Everything I’ve read has indicated this should have been a lovely, positive and warm experience, but it was terrifying. I woke my husband up with my screaming and grabbing for him.

    This was the first time I’ve seen an orb in person. I don’t know what to make of it, or my intense fear of it. I’m afraid to go back to sleep tonight, or go back in my room. I feel like I also need to add that I had “cleansed” the room earlier in the day by ringing some heirloom bells that belonged to my great-grandmother (I believe)…it’s the first time I’d ever done that, and all I can think is that I did it wrong and some thing didn’t appreciate it. But maybe I’m conflating two different things.

    Please help. Thank you in advance for your time and guidance.

    1. Hi Candace. Cleansing the space, calling in only your guides of the highest truth and compassion, and being open to what comes through, sends a beautiful sign to the Universe that you are ready to tap into this gift. I’m sorry to hear about your scary experience. Sometimes the intensity of these new experiences can be extremely unsettling at first. I invite you to drop into meditation, deep into your inner guidance, and ask if this white orb was coming from a place of love or from a negative space. Know that you didn’t do it wrong and really trust your amazing gifts. If and when you feel ready to connect again, please start the process by dropping into meditation, to really get grounded, stating out loud that you’re welcoming in only positive messages and experiences, and those who communicate from a place of love and truth. I believe in you. <3

  90. I had a major life shift last year and ended up seeing an energy healer. I felt a tornado inside and I couldn’t get control of it. It’s sounds strange but I felt so messy. It was my first time meeting her and she said I had little sparkles around me. Little Angles (children). She asked them to tone down their enthusiasm around me as it was too much for me to ha doe at the time. She asked to to gently guide me. Since then angel signs have been popping up. People have been calling me an angel…earth angel and a photographer asked if I would be a model for a fine art book that tells stories about people. She photoshopped a wing on me in the photo. I wish I could share it here. The signs and “coincidences” have been so amazing that over the last while, I will just smile and say thank you when signs appear. The numbers 444, 44, 4444. are the most common and feathers. Recently my 12 yr old son was hospitalized and the signs were constant and instantly I felt calm knowing all would be ok. That’s when I began to really realize and send my gratitude to them.
    Today I watched the videos about your Q&A. I felt a sense of relief to hear that my thanks is exactly what I should be doing. It just seemed natural. That lead me to the 10 steps and I’m definitely going to get your new book.
    Thank you for your guidance Gabrielle! Much gratitude to you ❤️

  91. Hi Gabby,
    I am a very intuitive person and can sense a lot and even see the spirit guides of other people. However I have developed a strong wall against this because I so easily get lost in this world and I feel like I am too open/sensitive to the energies. You mentioned grounding in this article which would maybe help me, but I am scared to let that wall down and I feel that I need some more involved help. Please, can you recommend anything?
    I have been going through some very challenging times and currently I am relying strongly on my own intuition but it is lonely to do it alone. In the past my family members looked out for me (my family has lots of relative spirit guides).

    I really like the way that you present your spirituality, can you perhaps point me to a useful resource for this? Thanks! Xx

  92. H Gabby,
    Lovely comments. Nicely presented in “sea level” English. No airy-fairy or metaphysical gobbledegook. Just simple English. As a publisher of spiritual psychology books on life challenges we all deal with, I’ve found that readers, of all faiths and spiritual awareness, react with sighs of relief that a gentle teacher, like youself, can guide them toward more awareness and increased communication with their personal booster’s club, the spirit guides and teachers who have volunteered to be them during their current and chosen lives.
    Looking forward to reading your book. Congratulations on putting forth such inspirational and motivational information.
    In light,
    Molli Nickell, SPIRIT SPEAKS Books

  93. Hey Gabby! I hope you are doing great!!
    I am in situation where my mind and some other voice contradict each other. There is a guy that I am with. I keep seeing his name wherever I go. It is something I have been attracting (LOA) or it is the way of universe saying she has my back.
    Ever since I have met him, there is a strong voice from within which tells me that we are meant to be. We will end up being together.
    The reality somehow has some issues, circumstances. My mind keeps telling me the present situation where there seems no solution. Something inside of me tells me no matter what and I don’t know how but we will be together. I am intuitive.What do I do?
    Please help.

    1. Urvashi, if you are unclear of what you’re being guided towards, return to a prayer and meditation practice to help you get grounded. Big shifts are possible when we truly believe. It can be very difficult to let go of our need to control and to trust in the Universe. When you ask for guidance and pray for the highest good, the Universe gets to work. What unfolds for you may not be what you expected or thought you wanted — but it will ultimately be even better. xo

  94. May Love, life and pure joy come into all of your lives. Life can be dark, but our spirit angels will always be there to guide us into the light. Trust in yourself and your angels; they want only good things for you, so if you feel that you’re going through a tough time; it simply means you’re transforming from a caterpillar to a butterfly. Your time is soon and you will be able to achieve all of your dreams, reach a sense of peace and be loving while being loved. Love is all we need (The Beatles)

  95. When I was little, I had two invisible playmates-Mike and Lisa. Now I totally believe they were spirit guides and I would love to hear from them again!

  96. I am unable to preorder but I can’t wait to read your book after reading this…
    It came at a time I am literally calling for my Spirit Guides constantly but need to learn how to & how to heat them back.

  97. Hi Gabby, I’ve had a friend receive messages for me from my deceased mom, shared some, not others. What she’s telling me is that I am destined for a specific relationship. I’m recently divorced and having terrible issues with letting go of my ex spouse. This “new” relationship is with someone from my past from 20 years ago. This individual is very special and important to me, but I feel like an inner voice is telling me is isn’t meant to be. Why is my guide telling me one thing and my inner voice another?!

    1. Kim, if you are unclear of what you’re being guided towards, return to a prayer and meditation practice to help you get grounded. Also, I recommend practising the steps in this blog to get grounded and continue to trust your inner guidance. Know that as you move forward with these tools, you will become more comfortable and trust your own process. xo

  98. I want to know everything from the bottom have got some potentials that I have ignored for too long now I’m beginning to aware of things but I really need to hear the voice speak to me

    1. Keep returning to these practices and be open to all the ways in which messages and signs can show up. <3

  99. Gabby,
    Today was my first meditation and writing exercise. I had such an incredible journaling experience and wanted to share it with you. It is amazing how quickly it happened. Just such a beautiful experience and wanted to reach out and thank you for your work. I asked my spirit guides for help with direction and when I was journaling, I wrote “This will be ok. Trust and breathe.” So very blessed for this beautiful opportunity.
    Thank you again for your amazing work and encouragement!

  100. I feel that,their is supernatural being and i want to connect to this power,i’m this soul that want to be successful and to make sure that people around me are happy and something when i do things i feel like there is pride in me.I want to be wealthy ,i have that mind made up,sometimes i fill discouraged about it,this is the reason i want to be with my spirit connected to each other to guides me.Thank you

    1. Showing up here and sharing is a beautiful sign that you are ready and open to making some big shifts through your divine connection. <3

  101. Hi Gabby, thank you for reinforcing that my spirit guides are real and true. Jesus has shown me love and walks with me…is there for me always. So is Genevieve! She is a tall, slim shadowy figure in a white gown…a little eerie, but is a beautiful being and is here to guide me. I have at times doubted that she is real, but know in my heart that her presence is a part of me. All the best to you and may you reach many people with your words ❤️

    1. Grateful that these tools are resonating with you. Thanks for showing up and sharing here Debra. Big hugs! XOX

  102. Are there any tutors need to know their Spirit guides name I don’t need to it’s not as important I know it’s a being of energy and it’s mostly masculine and it’s never steered me wrong thank you for this information it was helpful especially in my grasp and the fact that there is no name I can apply I wouldn’t understand it anyway thank you for the clarity. I do Wonder though every time I ask for help or something it was like a friend laughing at me like seriously we have to go through this again it’s so basic I hope that’s normal

    1. Hi Annmarie! I recommend practicing the steps in this blog to get grounded and continue to trust your inner guidance. A daily meditation practice and journaling will help you with clarity. When connecting with your guides, it can feel good to first announce that you welcome in only messages of positivity and the highest vibration. Know that as you move forward with these tools, you will become more comfortable and trust your process.

  103. This is the best and most comprehensive information I have encountered to learn about spirit guides. It is practical and easy to use! Thank you Gabby for being such a spiritual light for us–deeply grateful!

  104. I am soon to be 49 years old and not once have I received a sign from my guides or even one single desire from my list! Are my guides a sleep or just dont care about me or what? if anything it seems like they go out of their way not to give me a sign or even one desire I have asked for for SO many years now! Do I have to be dead to finally get all of this or what? All I read is people claim they get signs and all of their desires right away. I have waited 49 years for just one little thing at least out of all the many things I need

    1. Hi Paul. Thanks for sharing here. In order to open yourself up to seeing your signs and receive messages, start by making a list of all the things that are currently going well, all the things that you’re grateful for right now. Include everything that comes to mind, knowing there’s nothing too big and nothing too small! Being in the place of major appreciation will help you shifts into a space of receiving your signs.

      1. Thanks and I actually have been doing that for months about things that I was thankful for even though they were all small things. And my life in every area has been getting much worse as of late. So not only no signs at all from my guides and still also not getting any of the things I desire but on top of that things are getting worse and scary for me and my life! So i either dont have guides or they simply dont care about me like they do for others who claim they get endless signs and all of their desires. In fact they claim guides love giving signs and desires. Mine are clearly the opposite of that which is very upsetting

  105. Hi Gabby, thank you for your website and information. I have been aware of my spirit guides most of my life (i’m 46) and love the connection. It has become stronger over the past few years and now I find I am given ‘messages’ to give to others, whether i’m with them or not. It is sometimes hard to know when to pass it on but I use my judgement. My messages from my guides come through almost daily now and I have to chuckle about it. I always see the number 11:11 also. I would love to know your thoughts on my ‘clairsentience’ I think they call it and the link between that and my guides. I am also an empath which can be exhausting but I use balance, healthy eating and a spiritual approach to life which helps me.

    1. Beautiful Wendy! It’s such an amazing gift to connect to guides and messages in this way. When it comes to other people, it is often good to share messages only when someone approaches or asks for your guidance on it. Continue to tap into your inner guidance and knowing and do what feels most grounded for you. Keep shining your light! <3

  106. Hi gabby I have a question that has been in my head for a while, if we connect with our spirits guides those that mean that we will open a door that other bad spirits can go through and interrupt our peace or if we try and connect with our spirit guides those it open something evil or only to pur spirit guides? , btw thank you very much gabby this information will help me try this out. I have so many questions about how to solve my problems ,I’m going through so much stress and emotional pain that I will love to hear tha someone is with me to help and give me love.
    P.s I’m very scared of ghost so I hope they are friendly and don’t scare me

    1. Hi Kenia! When connecting with our guides, it’s helpful to declare out loud that you welcome in only that of the greatest good, things of high vibration, and positive, healing messages. <3

  107. Thank you so much I have been over worry about spiritual guide for spiritual thing but this morning I saw you in my dreams and you ask me for spiritual guide so I open my Google search engine then I come across of 10 Simple and Beautiful guide. Please take me more far about spiritual guide for spiritual.

    1. Our guides are always coming from a place of love and compassion, aligned with God and Source energy. When communicating with them, you can announce to the Universe that you welcome in messages that are only aligned with this energy. <3

    1. If you’re feeling unclear about connecting with your Spirit Guides, Gabby always recommends integrating a daily meditation practice. Sitting in meditation will help you connect with your inner guidance, so you can get clarity and be open to what ask for and receive.

  108. Well, I feel a spirit guide has been trying to contact me.. I explained it here https://karametaphysicsonquora.quora.com/12-15-18-Major-Spirtual-realization-and-encounter

    I have had a rather tough life, and though I do not necessarily like having labels on me, I am diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, PTSD amidst other illnesses.. I am at a very tough stage in my life and I have had a lot of abuse and trauma, though I do not believe any human really is evil, so I do not even want to call what I experienced abuse, it just is hard to move on and let go (I am a cancer moon-venus conjunct and my ceres also is cancer- that says it all. I have a hard time moving on).. I genuinely am struggling, but I have been called to grow spiritually a lot as of lately.. I already know archangel Michael watches over me, because I have had psychics tell me this and when I have attempted suicide I have had brief encounters with him whilst hospitalized.. I just am frustrating at myself, because I cannot figure out this guide’s name who is trying to contact me, but it seems they perhaps have a reason? Perhaps they do not want to startle me because they want to remain mindful of my trauma? I also am writing a book, and I feel the guide may be wanting to contact me for that, and also, I feel the guide wants me to develop telepathically.. I am confused, though I am starting to take psychic and mediumship classes, so perhaps it also is trying to introduce itself to me because it will be working with me a lot once I further develop in those regards?.. I don’t know, but I just hope that this spirit guide has my best interest, which I think it does, considering it isn’t rushing anything…

    1. Thank you for this brave share. When connecting with Spirit Guides, know that they only come from a place of love and support. If it feels unsupportive or negative, this is not a direction to be guided. Remember to be patient and gentle with yourself as you continue to strengthen your intuition on your beautiful healing journey.

  109. Thank you so much Gabby. I am just getting to know my spirit guide and this has helped me to understand how I can come in more contact with her and ask her for more help. By the way, her name is Jill.

  110. I tried this last night and it worked! A friend who is a medium has been telling me that I have an ancestor who wants to communicate with me. I was successful for the first time earlier this week but like you said there were some bad spirits there too and I didn’t understand the messages that I got. But, when I did this last night I got the messages loud and clear during meditation and got a HUGE one in a dream and she has been guiding me all day. Thank you so much! I think being specific about what I needed help with helped a lot.

  111. Hi, Gabby. I have always believed I have spirit guides. But, a dear friend posed a question to me that I cannot answer. I hope you can help us both understand. Instead of calling on our spirit guides, why not call on God?
    Hope you can help us with this quandry.
    Thanks so much.

    1. it’s the same thing. your spirit guides are there to bridge your thoughts back into alignment with God. You can speak directly to God if that feels more aligned to you:)

  112. Thanks Gabby. This was really a clear and well written article. I have been hearing alot about connecting to Spirit Guides but I wasn’t sure where to start. So thank you for your step by step process. Hopefully I can get the bliss you have. 🙂

  113. I’m so glad I came across this! I’ve been feeling really disconnected from my guides and the universe and this has definitely helped me reconnect with them! Thank you so much!

  114. Dearest Lisa,

    I’m new to this practice . 3 days to be exact. I was in a place where I felt small and weak with no power and thinking the world out there is just living to think low of me and not seeing my talent or my strength. Then I stumbled upon your “the universe has your back” summary video on YouTube and instantly connected and I’m hooked! Changing my perception and my energy felt like things and people around me started changing too, like I was beaming happiness and attracting people to be happy around me and in my company, Thankyou for sharing your light and being an awesome guidance system to take all of us like myself into the realm of reality and showing us the difference between what’s real and what’s an illusion. I can’t begin to thank you enough for sharing the love and experiences you’ve had and caused a paradigm shift in mine.

    With love , affection and gratitude.

  115. This is so helpful. I’ve been meditating for a couple of years and have received several messages and intuitive knowings in and out of meditation, but have not necessarily asked my guides for a sign. Last night, I asked for a sign for something I wanted help with and the track I am on. One of the first signs that popped into my head to look out for with this request was a dove, and, to your point, I just went with it, even though my brain krept in to remind me I live in NYC and where would a dove appear. I let that go and went about my day today. I got a lot of other signs that often show themselves to me…number sequences, etc and then I went on Instagram and there was video post of doves being released. I smiled and said thank you as I knew that was the sign I asked for. I thanked my guides for all the signs today, but this one resonated differently and reminded me too, it may not show up the way we expect it….and I continue to surrender! Thank you for all of this. Loving being part of this community!

  116. Thank You for this wonderful info. I have connected with my Spirit guide. He claims his name is roland. I will spare all the details because I think I am still in awe, after the dream I had about him introducing himself to me. ok now after a string of circumstances that he is actually around. I am questioning myself about how much of this is my imagination and my mind playing tricks. ? Oh my as I am typing this my back door that is open just closed very slowy. It is not a windy day. ok now what. lol.

    1. A great way to continue to connect is through a meditation practice. Meditating and sitting quietly will allow you to feel grounded, get clarity, and receive messages. <3

  117. Dear Gabby, i have been in this spiritual journey for years and it has been a roller coaster journey until recently.
    On the road of healing myself I have been received guidance from many inspirational people through their books and YouTube videos. On day I accidentally watched your video, bought your book and now I am reading your blog. So thank you, for being with me in this journey through sharing your experiences and tools. Tho we are thousands of miles away but I can feel your vibe and positive energy. Lots of love from Kuala Lumpur, MALAYSIA .

  118. Thank you so much, Gabby for all the guidance. I feel like I was meant to read your blog and connect with you.

  119. Wow this is gold! I am so grateful to receive such pertinent information at this stage of my journey, divine timing is awesome! Thank you Gabby for everything you do, I love all your work and am so grateful to have been led to your books and the fantastic teachings they contain.
    May I also offer my congratulations on your fabulous news – you will be such a cool mummy, so happy for you! x

  120. Wow, this is gold. So happy to be receiving this information just now, divine timing is awesome! Thank you for everything you do Gabby, I am grateful for being led to your teachings and I just love everything you do. Congratulations on your happy news also, you are going to be an amazing mummy x

  121. Thank you Gabby for this beautiful article.
    Yes, I think I need to reconnect with my guides and truly believe in them. In the last three years, I buried a loved one each year and that pushed me a bit off centre and into a survival mode.. but yes, it is time to reconnect again. 🙂

    1. I’m sorry to hear about your loss Nicla and sending lots of healing and love your way. Today is a great day to connect and be open to the universe. Be gentle and patient with your process XOX

  122. Thank you Gabby. reading on how to connect with your spirit guides is beautiful & happy that it gave me confirmation on what i have always known from spirits. You ROCK!!!

  123. I am brand new to this and I really want/need my spirit guides. I’m asking for a sign. How will I know

    1. Kelli, once you ask the universe for a sign, say this prayer: “Thank you, Universe, for offering me clarity. Show me my sign if I’m moving in the right direction.” Then be patient. If you’re unsure, tune back into prayer and your meditation practice <3

  124. This is funny and kind of awesome. I have heard my guide speak to me twice before when I was in danger, so I know it is a man. It is a voice I would recognize. I have never thought about asking for his name, so I thought I would give it a try just now. This is what went through my mind exactly:

    OK. I’m asking you for your name. I don’t know how a name is going to randomly appear in my hea- ADRIAN.

    So that’s how it works. Adrian it is. This name was nowhere on my radar – in fact the only Adrian I can think of was Rocky’s wife, and because she annoys me, I did not like the name. At least now “Adrian” will be better represented in my mind.
    I’ve been working on embracing the gifts that I have which I have pretty much kept hidden. Thank you for your guidance.

  125. Do you think this is why children have imaginary friends? Could it be a spirit guide that’s they are seeing?

    Thank you for this post, I needed to read it today.

    1. Yes, a child’s imaginary friend can be their guide. There are different reasons children see imaginary friends. Some kids will tell you they have made up this friend and others will insist they’re real. Children are very in tune with their intuitions and imaginations. The imaginary friend can be their intuitive guidance (spirit guide) coming forward.

  126. Gabby, you connect so beautifully with us, your readers. Thankyou. Like you, I have always felt the presence of guides in my life (faeries as a very young girl) and with the birth of both my daughters I was visited by beautiful spirits: on a very windy night after my youngest was born a family of owls flew into a tree in our backyard in Sydney and took refuge there for some weeks! I felt they were reassuring me that everything would be ok, and I loved that each day we could walk outside and look up and see that they were doing ok too! Love and thanks for your inspiration, Felicity xx p.s I can’t wait to see you in NYC next month!! I am so excited!

  127. thank you so much for this post, Gabby. I really needed to read this. That’s just the proof that the Universe wants me to grow and move forward. I am so grateful fo that. Thank you for breaking it down so that I can be more intentional about this.

  128. Thank you Gaby
    I like to tell you that as I read I begin to write te steps and continue writing: I knew what was the next one! this happens in steps 3,4,5,and 7
    I am so grateful to you

  129. GREAT post! So many writers cover a few of the steps you mention, but I’ve never seen it laid out so comprehensively before. Thx for the inspiration!

  130. Thank you! If you have any suggestions for sitting in stillness I welcome it. I don’t know why it’s so hard!

  131. I tried the free-writing with my spirit guides for the first time today and what came through was truly incredible. I’ve been going through a tough time in my life and it was everything that I needed to hear to keep going and see solutions for some of the challenges in front of me. My gut instincts (or spirit guides!) made sure I read this blog today and I’m so happy I did. Thank you!

  132. This email in itself was spirit speaking to me! It’s timing, it’s message, all things I needed today. Thank you Gabby!

  133. dear Gabby Mam will you clear my doubt please? I always knew that I only have to call on my god for any kind of help so if I now ask help from spirit guide won’t it be a confusing thing to do? I really don’t understand this thing. Shouldn’t we only seek help from our God? please forgive my ignorance I just had to ask because I don’t know much of this things..thank you so much ♥

  134. I really loved this blog G. Trusting your psychic abilities is when the magic happens. I had been told I was psychic my whole life… but I was scared. Once I trusted my angels, there was a shift. So grateful for this.

  135. Thank you so much for all your posts. I started to call in my guidance but Why am I so affraid for them to really answer me.? I get very scared even to think about it. Not sure if it’s because we have had experiences in my family with bad people being guided by bad spirits. I used to believe they (good and bad) existed and then tuned myself out of it and decided not to believe any more.

    1. These past experiences have likely freaked you out about what it means to connect with a spirit guide. This is why it’s really important to call on the guides of the highest truth and compassion. When you do this you can be sure that you are receiving guidance only from wise and loving guides. This doesn’t mean that you will be shielded from bad things happening in life. But it does mean that you will be supported. Your guides will direct you to the people, situations and resources you need.

  136. Wow is all I can say. I did kundalini yoga a couple weeks ago and ever since then there’s been a shift in my life. I’ve gotten in touch with my spiritual side and miracle after miracle keeps happening! I love asking for signs; people think I’m crazy but it’s so powerful. Tonight I was going to buy a mantra band for my friend that said “La vie est belle” which is “Life is beautiful” in French. I put it back to have a think about it and I asked the universe to give me a sign if it would be a good gift for her. An hour later I was walking up the street and I looked up and there was a sign that said “Life is beautiful.” Not only that, but I saw a statue of an owl right after. Safe to say I’ll be back to buy the mantra band tomorrow!!
    Ps: started reading your book for the third time today! Never gets old xx

  137. Thanks again Gabby for reminding me of our brilliance when we listen to our divine guidance, you always seem to pop up at just the right time when I’m feeling unsure and vulnerable. Our earth angel much love and light

  138. I did all these steps last night- my guide told me beautiful things and one practical piece of information as my husband away she said go downstairs and lock the door, I was sure I had done this but went to check and yes it was unlocked. Beautiful work. Huge gratitude to you. ❤️we love you Gabby. Xxx

  139. Gabby, I have been truly blessed to have come across your teachings! Thank you for all the positivity you send out into the world and into the hearts of so many spirit junkies ✌

  140. as I was reading this my roommate walked in and surprised me with “angel wafers.”

    thank you Gabby. (and thank you guides <3)

  141. Thank you Gabby. This past weekend, I was having an incredibly rough time and watched many of your videos, including the one about connecting with our Spirit Guides. The sign I asked for was a rainbow. You said they could come in many forms, and I was filled with surprise, gratitude and love when the next day I went into a clothing store and it had a huge rainbow raft. I had never tried that before! I’m new to discovering your work and am so very thankful for you as I work through this struggle.

    1. That is beautiful. Turn to your guides and you will receive the love and support you need during this difficult time. Peace awaits you.

  142. I often return to your teachings at just the right moment! Seeing the cover of ‘The Universe has your back’ is often enough to jog me into alignment. I love these ten steps and will keep them close. Thank you for your constant generosity Gabby

  143. Hi Gabby,
    I have found 2 dimes ( sometimes more) a month for at least 3 years. I keep them in a book with the explanation of where I found them. Could these be my Spirit Guides? I just don’t know what they want me to know.

    1. Our guides like to be playful and let us know they are around, watching over us and available to give us guidance. When you see those dimes, take them as a reminder that you are being guided, and that your guides want you to connect with them.

  144. Oh my, Gabby! I just did this, I was nervous and skeptical about the free writing with the guides of the highest truth and compassion. After I meditated, I addressed the top of my page for the invitation for them to write through me. First I look over and see a spark of light in front of my couch. Then my body gets warm and tingly and I felt like I wasn’t even moving the pen. This was truly amazing! Thank you so much for this opportunity and guidance!

  145. I was called to pick up a book on mediumship in a crystal store and the day I finish reading about calling in my spirit guides, I get this email! I am an intuitive energy healer (The Accidental Healer) and get messages about my clients through “daydreams” while I work on them. I’m sure they are from my spirit guides. I guess I was listening to them before I even knew it!

  146. Hi Gabby, Thanks for this wonderful blog and for all of the guidance you so thoughtfully give. I’m shocked that I’ve seen no other men commenting here!

    Love and light to you all.

  147. Thank you for offering your brilliance in this blog article! I know your advice will help me to be more centered and organized in the ways I communicate with my Spirit Guides! Brilliant!

  148. Love the post! I’m trying to develop my connection to my guides and have gone deeper through my Kundalini practice. My question is this: Do your guides sometimes choose your sign for you? After reading The Universe Has Your Back I chose a sign, but never save. After starting a consistent Kundalini practice I see numbers in sequence very often. I have interpreted this as my sign. Could my guides have chosen this for me, rather than what I chosen?

    1. This happened to my editorial director. She had never asked for a sign but consistently saw numbers in sequence and blue jays when she was surrendering and asking for guidance. She realized the blue jay was a sign for her. Embrace it. <3

  149. Thank you Gabby for this post . I have been struggling the last while and finding it hard to connect with my guides. This was exactly what I needed to hear at this moment. Thank you ❤️❤️

  150. Thank you Gabby for this post on spirit guides! It is only thru the past few years that I have been communicating with mine which led to my book and so many wonderful experiences. I do have many moments of fear and doubt so I am going to try the exercises you listed. Music and feathers are my signs and it is such a wonderful gift. Thank you for always shining your light and love to others.

    1. Its amazing the work you do and the light and wisdom you always have to offer. Since I heard your phrase “walk your talk” I think about it when I feel lost. Thank you dear

  151. Thank you for this article. Years ago I was in tune with my guides and would often find a single feather in my path which I knew to be a gift. Over the years I spent less and less time communicating with my guides and my spirituality. I still occasionally find a single feather and I remember for a moment that my guides are still there. Recently I have been feeling the call to reconnect spiritually with myself and the universe. Your article could not have been better timed for me. I had goosebumps the entire time I was reading it. Thank you!

  152. Gabby I loved ”
    I loved “The Universe Has Got Your Back” talking about many thoughts I have and haven’t had. Speaking about the difficulties you experienced on your path to show it isn’t “I did this thing and I was transformed”. You put your heart and soul into it, thank you. I’d love to see you in person just to feel your energy but I seem to have a number of physical difficulties in this illusion that would make this difficult. I have had a feeing that I would like to share my spiritual growth, awareness with others too. Thank you for all this work you share.

    1. Thank you for being the light, Robert. I can feel your energy through this comment – make no mistake that our energy shows up in all ways, not just in person. Regarding sharing your spiritual growth and awareness with others – join the waitlist for Spirit Junkie Masterclass Digital. This course is for people who want to inspire others by doing what inspires them, and no travel is required. 🙂

  153. Gabby,

    I just want to thank you, I have such a connection to you and have every book you have written plus the audio versions. I have connected to spirit guides since I was little and more at times than others. I have always wanted to build this relationship and to strengthen it but just didn’t have the right tools, but thanks to me finding you I have been able to dig in and start making these connections stronger.

    1. Thank you Sherry for being here, through different workshops and books – so glad these tools are serving you

  154. I woke up this morning feeling scared and anxious. Even meditation didn’t work. But then this email popped up and suddenly I remembered that there are ways to ask for help. Thank you so much. I take this blog as a sign from my guides that they want to help me.

  155. It is only through reading your work and meditating recently that I feel even remotely normal. I am going through a break up that is really taking a lot out of me and I’m struggling to keep the faith. I am going to try connecting with my spirit guides more. Thank you for the reminder <3

  156. Gabby you are such an amazing person, I enjoy all the knowledge you share. Listening to you helps me in so many aspects in my life, thank you for all that love you spread❤️

  157. Thanks for sharing these 10 steps Gabby. You have confirmed things that I’ve always known but just needed affirmation to put into practice. Very grateful & can’t wait to put these steps into practice xo

  158. Awesome Gabby, thank you! I love how you convey this info in 10 steps and your clear, conversational style. (I’ve listened to a couple of your books on audio tape so it’s easy for me to hear your voice – thanks so much!)

  159. My relationship with my guides has literally changed my life over the past 1.5 years. I know exactly what you mean about that feeling of unconditional love they provide. It’s brought me to tears in my mediations and as I free-write, but also grounds me in the day-to-day. Before my journey with them began, I interpreted the world logically and intellectually–relying only on my own self to survive–and allowed only the slightest bit of wonder about the Universe. Now, I’m a total believer….the signs are absolutely undeniable! And that’s not to say they’ve led me exactly where I expected or wanted to go. A few months back I began EMDR per their guidance and it’s turned out to be the most difficult AND freeing experience. The most incredible part is, they timed it perfectly for when all of my “tools” (meditation etc) were in place and my faith strengthened. I know that I am supported completely and on the path I seek. It’s pretty amazing.

  160. I love this Gabby! I recently listened to Sonia Choquette’s book Listen to Your Vibes. She talks a lot about connecting to guides and has a beautiful guided meditation at the end for making this connection. This blog post really complements that book.
    I read the Universe Has Your Back and chose a sign. It was a certain kind a flower, a buttercup. I never saw this sign. I started practicing Kundalini yoga on a regular basis, which I love! I am able to enter such deep meditative states with this practice. Now, all of a sudden, I’m getting numbers in sequence very frequently. It’s as if my guides chose the sign for me and now I’m just going with it! Is this something that can happen? Do the guides choose the sign for you?

  161. Gabby, I have been working on strengthening my communication with my Guides! The timing of your post was perfect – of course! Thank you, Gabby! Thank you, Universe. 🙂

  162. Gabby,
    Thank you so much. I received this exactly when I needed that and that is a sign. Synchronicity.
    I’m one of those living in fear. I constantly ask: where’s my sign? Why are you silent? etc.
    I have to trust and surrender. I’ve asked The Universe to help take me fear away. Thank you for this. Blessings to you.

  163. I see sparks of light all the time, and have always felt a positive presence. 🙂 Thank you for sharing how to deepen the connection. XOXO

  164. This came at the right moment!!! My spirit guides brought this to me right here, right now when turmoil was surrounding me….
    I thank them, my soul needs this

  165. Amazing!! I keep receiving angel wings as messages. I see them everywhere! I even got a tattoo of one recently. I want to share that I feel like I was meant to read your book Judgement Detox. I found your fb page via two of my yoga teachers at the most perfect time. Your page was recommended in my Facebook feed. Without hesitation I ordered the book and journal. It was the strongest urge almost like I was pushed to order them. I’ve finished the book and it has changed my life! I saw your post directing me to this blog on Instagram just a day after seeing angel wings clear as day in the clouds. Thank you for your guidance and your messages. You are amazing and I can’t wait to read your other books. I keep seeing the deck of cards too so I know that’s sign I need to get them :). Thank you!!

  166. I’ve seen my “signs ” and a few flashes of light in moments where I felt a deeply rooted intuition towards a particular situation. Because of your book and suggestion to be OPEN, I have begun meditating and am welcoming these entities of love and guidance in. Thank you for your positive influence in my life. I will pay it forward I assure you.

  167. Gabby , You are my role model! During my darkest times, I have read your books and it has helped me so much. i wish to meet you in person & shall manifest this too:)
    Love you.

    Sonia from India .

  168. Thank you for the wonderful information! I’ve been learning more about this lately, and I fully believe I’ve been receiving messages from my spirit guides as I see tons of repeating numbers everywhere. I don’t see consistent numbers but 222, 444, 888,000 11;11, etc. ALL THE TIME. I’ve been asking for their guidance and thanking them for when I see them. I hope to use your guidance above to connect with them more. I’ve trying to try less and trust more when it comes to controlling the situations I’m in so I love your message about trusting and letting go. 🙂

  169. I am certain that I was guided to read this post today. Thank you for sharing this beautiful message. It is exactly what I needed to be reminded of.

    1. I don’t have plans to be in DC anytime soon, but if I have an event there I will make it widely known!

  170. This is beautiful. I this was a sign I needed right now. I needed to read this because I have been struggling to keep in connection with my higher self and my guides, this was extremely helpful. Thank you gabby for sharing your wisdom and love.

  171. Thanks for this awesome blog, Gabby! When I was trying to conceive, one day after a failed IVF I walked out of my doctor’s office feeling so totally bummed and I walked into B&N and a woman was sitting on the floor in front of the pregnancy section reading Inconceivable. I have three children now conceived naturally and it all started with that book. There is no question in my mind that I was guided to read it. xxxx

  172. Wow Gabby this isbeautiful and thorough and the timing on receiving this was amazing thank you so much for the impact you’ve had on my life

  173. I am having surgery soon for some health problems—ovarian cyst, fibroid and extremely heavy bleeding which has left me anemic and just feeling less than myself. I have been meditating and praying to feel better. For years I tried to control these problems with food and acupuncture, but it’s time to surrender and put my faith in western medicine. Since I decided to surrender, I have been seeing 4s everywhere, especially double 4s. I have not been sure why, but it’s interesting to me that you say you have been seeing strings of #s when healing a health thing. Thank you for including that paragraph. Makes me feel like it means that things are going to be ok.

    1. Trust that guidance and remember that our guides work through our doctors and lead us to the right doctors. I am sending my love and light to you on your healing path.

  174. Hi Gaby. I had a reading yesterday at a Mind, Body Soul festival yesterday and was told that I have the ability to do spirit work and have guides around me (I don’t tend to invite them in!). I asked how to start developing my intuition, and lo and behold your email came through today! Thank you guides, and thank you Gaby x

  175. This is a beautiful piece. Your guidance totally resonates with me and my own experiences. Thank you for sharing this and bringing more light and love into the world.

  176. Hi Gaby! I was cleaning my bookcase yesterday and your book “May cause miracles” literally feel down of the shelf and got wedged in the back wall. A not so gentle reminder that I need to listen to my guide and align to love. Thank you for this blog post! Have a lovely week!

  177. Dear Gabby,

    again; thanks for your inspiring information
    that you share!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    sixteen years ago i give birth to my youngest daughter

    the ours before..
    i was alone at home and i thougt it would be ok to take a bath
    but after a while it was difficult to come out the bath

    from that moment on i was sure
    i’d had to stay calm and focused
    and i asked the angels to guide me

    litle by little it became possible to come out
    and how i’ve been taken on my clothes i don’t remember

    and i took sooo long to step to my neighbours
    during the labor

    to call the midwife

    there it wasn’t possible to move any more and i stay there
    and after a while i found the courage to go home

    but the door was not ok
    i was asking help

    and something happened
    also the songs of the birds in my garden
    were helping me

    i am sure
    they made me ‘happy” in a special way

    this feeling was not explainable

    when the midwife came

    she said that my child must be bormed immediatly

    but i said ‘no i can’t do this anymore’

    she spoke to me resolut eand slowly

    and it worked

    i pussed myself and called my ”’innerpowerintintict”’ and by hunker down my child was borm

    she was so quiet and beautiful and she slept for hours and hours in my arms

  178. Dear Gabby,

    I like to thank you for all your inspirational messages you sent. Some come when I need them to grow on my path. Then I know I,m being helped at that moment. I know their are guides and I,m being led. But very often I loose that feeling when there is a situation I go into fear because I don,t know how to handle or arrange things.
    Then I,m very stressfull and I miss the thougt off knowing I can ask for help. I read an article that when your vounarable the most, then they get trough you very easy. I wondered about a situation how to arrange babysitting for my son who,s 9 years old. I,m joining a class? for three months about experience in my life of life events. So I may help people with their feelings and lifeevents. So happy Im going to do this. I,m 50 years old
    so its a big change in my life.
    I want to connect more with the guides, they do know this.I asked them for this! So today there,s my answer. Your 10 steps to connect with them! I,m very gratefull
    for this .Thank you very much! They deserve to know how gratefull I am they are always thrre for me and I can call on them anytime!
    Dear Gabby wish you all the luck and thank you for your inspiration
    Sorry for my long letter and my englisch.

  179. Thankyou Gabby. You’ve reminded me of what I’ve forgotten and I’m about to go to your blog to be further guided by you. x

  180. Awesome information Gabby…..thanks a lot. Loads of Gratitude…
    I am really looking forward to connect with my spirit guides and start receiving messages from them.

      1. For the majority of my life I felt like I was the only one I could trust. Until the very end I believed that and the world was out to get me but now I know the universe is on my side

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      1. Hello, This is Joe Barnett, MA of Crystal Magic Orchestra
        I am a Healing Music Musician and Composer

        Crystal Magic Orchestra’s healing music is extremely powerful –
        it has literally Raised me – Joe Barnett, MA – from the Dead and has FULLY HEALED ME from that car accident that killed me in 2008


        Here is our website webpage that tells about my experience.
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