Spirit Junkies, there is one question I come back to again and again.
When a friend comes to me with a problem, when people ask for help during my lectures, when I’m all knotted up over some disagreement….
Whatever it is, this question solves so much. Here it is:
Would you rather be right or happy?
The need to be right can be one of the greatest blocks to your happiness, your flow, and your relationships with other people.
We all feel this from time to time. You don’t have to be a notoriously stubborn person to fall into the trap. In fact, it can be super subtle and really sneak up on us.
It comes up a lot when we think the people around us are wrong and we’re right. We know the truth, and they don’t.
It can also come up when we’re determined to prove ourselves to someone else (or to the world).
The need to be right can turn the tiniest misunderstanding into a huge fight. It can lead to all kinds of nasty things, from resentment to grudges to self-pity.
The truth is, we want to be happy! We want peace. The ego loves to block our flow with the insatiable need to be right, but we can CHOOSE happiness and let go of this need.
And there’s a super simple way to clear the path for a better experience. You can choose to be happy and peaceful and free instead.
Watch the video below for my 3-step process to letting go of the need to be right.
I hope this video serves you.