Let Yourself Off the Hook This Valentine’s Day

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I choose love no matter what | The Universe Has Your Back card deckValentine’s Day is coming up! For many people it’s an exciting holiday, but for others it’s a source of dread.

There are so many expectations for Valentine’s Day. If you’re single, there can be all kinds of drama around it. In a new relationship? Drama! In a relationship for years? Still a good chance for drama!

So how do we deal with all this madness? I’ve worked out your best Valentine’s Day plans ever.

Make Valentine’s Day about self-care and self-love

I want to take the focus off Valentine’s Day and put it onto you! Instead of getting tripped up about romance and relationships and what we think things should look like on this one day, I have a new idea…

Make Valentine’s Day about your self-care and self-love.

Pretty awesome, right?

Devoting Valentine’s Day to your spiritual practices and nurturing yourself takes the pressure off. Instead of freaking out about being single, you can bask in the amazing experience of treating yourself with love.

Watch the video and keep reading for my breakdown…

Activate an energy of self-love on Valentine’s Day

Make a commitment that your Valentine’s Day is going to be all about you! Write yourself a letter. Send yourself some flowers. Make yourself a beautiful meal. Go get a massage or give yourself a foot massage. Just do something that’s very gentle and loving towards yourself.

Nurture yourself this Valentine’s Day.

Our commitment to ourselves is something we often forget. We forget to nurture ourselves, support ourselves and love ourselves. Let’s use this holiday as an opportunity to activate that energy. If you enjoy it, bring it into every day of your life — because those moments of self-care are what keep us consistent on our spiritual path.

If you’re someone who hates Valentine’s Day, this is a great way to reignite the love. When we focus on nurturing ourselves, we activate a feeling of self-love, compassion and generosity. That’s an energy that’s quite sexy. If you’re in a relationship, your partner will pick up on those vibes and feel really good in your presence. And if you’re single, this energy only magnifies your attractiveness!

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