How to Be a High-Vibe Friend

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Note: I updated this blog post in 2019 for clarity and additional resources.

Are you a high-vibe friend? Or do you do tend to lean a little negative? Maybe you get hooked in the latest gossip or you have a hard time complimenting others.

Here’s the deal: Either way it’s okay. We all get stuck in a low-vibe BADitude from time to time. But with a few simple shifts we can redirect our energy and bring much more positivity to our friendships and our life.

It’s SO much fun to be a high-vibe, good friend. When you bring forth your awesomeness and elevate others you’ll feel energized and empowered. Being a high-vibe friend is a benefit to everyone, including you.

3 ways to be a high-vibe friend

Watch this video for my top tips to ditch the funky stuff and become a high-vibe friend!

Step 1: Redirect the conversation

If you see your friends going down the road of negativity, saying things like “I can’t,” or “I don’t want to,” or gossiping, change the conversation. Redirect.

  • Start talking about what you do have.
  • Talk about all that you’re grateful for.
  • Talk about the good things that are going on in your lives.
  • Compliment the other person. Point out something that’s great about them!

Immediately, your energy can elevate that connection and redirect the entire conversation. You can also use spiritual techniques to protect your energy and avoid taking on low-vibe energy.

Step 2: Show up with a high vibe

If you come to the party with all your greatness, you immediately elevate everyone and you start to clear the path for them. If you show up with your highest intentions and bring your high vibes to the table, people will feel that vibration and they’ll follow you.

My hope is that you can be that light force when you walk in the room and start to clear the path for others to change direction. Your energy has far more power than you can imagine. For tips on how to shift your energy, learn how vibes speak louder than words.

Step 3: Remember you can always choose again

My energy creates my reality. What I focus on is what I will manifest. | Gabby Bernstein | The Universe Has Your Back card deckIn any moment you can redirect yourself. If you’re bringing low vibes and a negative attitude to a conversation, you can choose again fast.

Just today when my videographer, Brittany, showed up, I was in a low-vibe place, freaking out about some family chaos and feeling like crap. So I made a decision in my mind, “I need to choose again. We have work to do. We’re shooting videos. I’m going to choose again.”

Setting that intention invites in a power greater than yourself to lift you out of that low-vibe place and restore happiness and well-being. (Plus, check out my 3 tips to get out of bad mood fast.)

Enjoy being the high-vibe friend! Your energetic shift has a ripple effect and lifts up everyone around you.

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  1. This is so helpful and TRUE! This video really speaks to me! It is really a great Video post to Listen and I found some interesting tips. So thanks for sharing it with us.

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  3. Thank you Gabby! This is so helpful. I found this quote today after watching your video and thought of you: “There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that receives it.” ? Edith Wharton, It’s so nice that you can be both!

  4. Thank You so much for sharing this video, I think I’m guilty of both being a low vibe friend and at times I am a high vibe friend. I will incorporate your tools to be the light and the friend that can redirect the conversation as well as myself.
    I very much look forward to seeing and hearing you speak in San Francisco Feb 16th, it is going to be my birthday present to myself. My birthday is Feb 14th.
    Thank You for all the amazing work you do, I am a work in progress and ever since I have started to follow you I feel like there is hope to become better and better, to focus on today not so much on the future or what I don’t have which I am guilty of as well. Redirecting or switching my energy from low to high has proven difficult for me at times.
    Much Love!!
    Maria

  5. Thank You so much for sharing this video, I think I’m guilty of both being a low vibe friend and at times I am a high vibe friend. I will incorporate your tools to be the light and the friend that can redirect the conversation as well as myself.
    I very much look forward to seeing and hearing you speak in San Francisco Feb 16th, it is going to be my birthday present to myself. My birthday is Feb 14th.
    Thank You for all the amazing work you do, I am a work in progress and ever since I have started to follow you I feel like there is hope to become better and better, to focus on today not so much on the future or what I don’t have which I am guilty of as well. Redirecting or switching my energy from low to high has proven difficult for me at times.
    Much Love!!
    Maria

  6. Gabby, I am so grateful for you and the message you continue to put out there to make the world a better place. And I can’t get over how the Law of Attraction works in our lives. I put out an e-book to my subscribers a couple of months back, and an entire section of it is on the subject of your post. Not only that, but so many of the same messages I write about seem to be popping up everywhere I turn. I’m so glad that there are so many of us learning from each other and spreading the goodness. You are one of my many wonderful mentors, and I’m so glad to know that I am in sync with you. Thank you, again. XO, Rene

  7. It’s so easy to get in the negativity groove! As a therapist, I’m definitely required to listen to and care for people who are going through rough stuff. I think that’s such an important service. But in the rest of life, there’s a difference between sharing what’s going on with a compassionate listener and just getting stuck in negativity loops.

  8. Most of the time I show up with high energy, but realized I gossip way to much, mostly within family. Recently decided to pay attention to this and remind myself to change the subject every time I catch myself gossiping. So cool to see you mention this in vlog 😉
    Thanks Gabby!
    Vesna

  9. This is so helpful and TRUE! We all can easily fall into the negative talk and drama when with friends but if you are able to redirect it can really turn things around. I did this the other day when a couple of friends went LOW vibe during a really HIGH vibe, fun girls lunch. It worked and they both actually thanked me and apologized for focusing on the negative. Thanks, Gabby!!!

  10. Gabby, thanks so much for this video and you high-vibeing again :-)!
    How about we make “high-vibe” a verb?
    “to high-vibe”…
    So, let’s high-vibe together everyone, shall we 🙂 ?!
    Have a beautiful day!
    Greta

  11. I was friends with a lot of drama queens! Then I stop talking to them and I said no to all the plans they made just because I thought they would low my vibration with their baditude, now I know that If my vibe is high enough I can change their vibration and make the friendship better and a more fulfilling one! I am also bringing this with my boyfriend to increase the love and fun in our relationship, thank you Gabby… by the way, doing it with the family it´s a little more harder, LOL! HOW CAN I MAKE IT EASIER AND SMOOTH?

  12. Thank You Gabby! You have taught Me soooo much over the past year! I use to be the Debbie Downer all the time, until I started reading Spirit Junkie & Miracles Now! Needed the reminder today. Giiggling! Great Big Hugs Robin

  13. I love that in any given moment we can choose again. You talk about in your fearless relationships course that whatever energy you bring is the energy you will get, that was epic for me to learn.
    High Vibe BFFs forever.

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