Friendly Romance

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I am a recovering codependent. One of the greatest tools for my recovery in this area is to pay attention to the romance throughout my life. Rather than place all of my romantic needs and desires onto one partner I’ve learned to recognize romantic sparks in my friendships, my work, my physical activities and more. By choosing to seek romance in all corners of life I’ve let my romantic partners off the hook and I’ve created equality in my relationships. This vlog will guide you to do the same. Begin to ignite romantic sparks and inspiration in all areas of your life!

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  1. Gabby :D!!!

    This is proof that my ~ing is guiding me! The newsletter featuring this vlog was STILL in my inbox from August. And boy did I need to hear this at exactly this moment in time.

    Love you so much!

  2. You can have romance with a mechanical devise if it is your passion…mine is a Yamaha V-Star 1100 named SusieQ we have been in a relationship for 2 months now and it is looking like a lifemate LOL! Had to comment loved your video, people don’t realize that they can have romance with all that is around them . A-lone-ness is an illusion ()’s Leslie

  3. Love this!! If you put it that way I have romance in every area of my life already then and I’m currently single! haha Thanks for the reminder and different perspective.


  4. Thought it was an insightful observation that making one person resposible for holding all the space for your love can be a lot of pressure and suck for them! LOL
    Such high expectations to live up to, ahhh…… the pressure.I know people that live to please ea. other. I hope they get to see this vlog and become enlightened to the possibilities of……share the love…. spread the love, lighten up, I totaly agree!
    Thanks for the Beautiful insight:) Cheers, Karina

  5. Recently, I heard a stand-up comedian talk about the “Disney Princesses” and the whole “Some day my prince will come” story line. Paraphrasing, his comedic approach was: “What were these women doing all of this time while they were waiting for their prince? The princes were struggling to get to them, fighting wars, gallantly riding around on their white horses, and these women just sat around singing and eating Bon Bons, just waiting….” I totally got what this comedian was saying. What a detrimental message to send to young girls! Recently divorced and rediscovering and honoring my unique qualities again after 18 years, I find fulfillment within the relationships I have with the women and men I come in contact with everyday at my job and in my everyday life. The other night I sat up in bed and remembered: “I used to play the piano!” I have a definite romance with the piano about to take off….again.

  6. This is such a great way to look at romance.
    I’ve always focused on self-love as my approach to fulfilling my need from within instead of outside myself. But the idea of romance is so much juicier.
    I’m single right now but after listening to this I’m thrilled to discover how much romance I already have.
    Thank you!

  7. Gabby,
    I listened to your vlog and I am so reminded of all the beauty and love around me. thanks for this. the 2 fur faces in my life remind me of the love I have for life and the desire to live a beautifully connected and loving life. Going to the NY Latino film festival tonight! xoxo Cyndie

  8. Let your significant partner off the hook! Let everyone off the hook. I’m recovering from co-dependance and this vlog today hit the spot. Thanks so much

  9. I used to know this! I used to really know this! Thank you for bringing it up and back again, my great, sweet messenger. Just the “let go” I needed.

  10. Beautiful, Gabby!!!! Funny, I recently had a dream about my codependent past. I feel so blessed to be liberated from those relationships. There is so much beauty and love to be experienced in all aspects of life: alone, in nature, with friends, with family, with our partners. I feel so blessed and grateful that you shared your experience!

  11. This is great!! I strive to feel the love in all facets of my life. Thanks for the reminder of equality!

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