Creative Possibilities Are Available to You

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Gabby Bernstein on a balcony overlooking the oceanWe live in a Universe of abundance, and an infinite number of creative possibilities are available to us.

Sounds great, right? It is. And it’s the truth — but this truth is easy to forget. We can get out of alignment with this belief system very easily.

I spent many years being pretty bad at seeing those creative possibilities. I was often obsessing about problems and how to fix them. I’d get very stressed out when things didn’t work the way I wanted and I’d try to control my circumstances to feel safe and deal with all the uncertainty of the world. I spent a lot of time pushing and controlling, thinking that my mini meltdowns would get me to the next level in my life.

Eventually I hit bottom, turned inward and prayed for help. This moment of surrender led to an awakening. I realized I couldn’t move forward in life with grace and ease if I was constantly looking for problems. My fixation blocked my Super Attractor power.

I had to stop obsessing over problems and start looking for solutions.

That very simple adjustment in my attitude changed everything in my life.

I chose to perceive problems as possibilities

It was when I began to perceive problems as possibilities that everything began to shift. Whenever I noticed a problem come up, I instantly redirected my focus and started to repeat this mantra:

I’m seeking solutions. All my solutions are on the way.

It makes me feel good even now, even this moment, just saying that out loud: “I’m seeking solutions. All my solutions are on the way.” Literally saying it out loud to myself over and over again made me feel more aligned, more connected and more empowered.

Repeating this mantra redirected my focus and shifted my energy. It calmed my nervous system and made me feel more receptive. And I started to really pay attention to the solutions that were available to me when I stopped trying to fix my problems.

How to stop obsessing over problems and open up to creative possibilities

First it’s important to recognize the perceived problems in your life that you have on repeat. Open a journal and write your responses to these 2 questions:

  • What are the problems that you talk about often? The ones you complain about or obsess over, or journal about in the middle of the night?
  • How does it feel to think about these problems and pour your energy into trying to fix them?

When you cultivate this awareness, you open up your ability to receive solutions instead!

Below are 3 steps on how to stop obsessing about problems and start seeking solutions. When you redirect your focus in this simple way, you’ll recognize and accept that creative possibilities are available to you all the time!

Step 1: Watch your words and the words of others

I am kind & loving toward others while creating clear boundaries that protect my good-feeling emotionsThe words you choose directly affect your energetic vibration. When you gossip or judge or put other people down, you lower your energetic vibration.

Become very conscious of what you say — because sometimes we think we’re being helpful or nurturing, but actually our comment is hurting someone else’s energy.

For instance, as I share in Super Attractor, during my fertility journey and I was very public about my personal experience of trying to conceive. I wanted to remind others they weren’t alone and I wanted to share the spiritual practices that helped me stay deeply aligned and faithful even when I wasn’t sure what the resolution would be.

I knew my openness was helping other women, and I started getting countless messages from women thanking me and sharing their own stories. I felt so grateful for their outreach. I also noticed that when I heard stories of struggle, pain, doubt and suffering, I started to feel very down.

Over my years of being a spiritual teacher, I’ve welcomed people’s stories and I have deep compassion for them. But this time it was hitting really close to home. As I picked up on their fear, I felt my own faith start to dwindle, and my positive momentum slowed down. And I started to project other people’s stories onto myself.

How I protected my energy

The moment I noticed I wasn’t feeling good, I decided to pivot, because I had to protect my energy. Anytime I received an email with resistance around fertility, I’d say a prayer for the person and remind myself that their story is not my story. I’d say that over and over again: “Their story is not my story.”

I did everything I could to protect my good-feeling momentum. After a few months of committing to feeling good, I noticed I was no longer getting negative messages or comments at all. They weren’t even coming into my sphere.

I can decide today to recalibrate my energy and commit to love and joy | Super Attractor deckMy commitment to feeling good sent a message to the Universe that I was no longer a match for negative fertility stories. My belief in infinite creative possibilities allowed me to release all blocks.

Not only was I no longer attracting the negative fertility stories, but I became a match for positive stories. Every woman I met from that point forward came up to me with a miraculous story of fertility.

It was amazing to see how my commitment to feeling good, my commitment to infinite possibilities, strengthened my Super Attractor power. That energy started to vibrate within me because I was supporting my intention, which was to feel good and focus on creative possibilities.

How to handle other people’s resistance

As you begin your practice of focusing on creative possibilities in your own life, you’ll notice resistance from other people. It’s just going to happen. When you shine bright, it’s confusing to others who aren’t ready for that light. Don’t blame them or their resistance, because they’re just reflecting back to you just any lingering resistance of your own.

Use these moments as opportunities to surrender to feeling good even more. Some ways you can do this are:

  • Amp up your meditation practice.
  • Find ways to distract yourself and have fun.
  • Seek positive stories and opportunities to feel good.
  • Tell the truth with love.
  • Redirect a conversation, unfollow someone negative on social media or leave a room when you need to.

Remember that you can’t control what people say or do, but you can choose how you perceive what’s going on and how you experience everything that happens.

Make sure you’re constantly reminding yourself:

I’m open to creative possibilities. I focus on feeling good, and it’s good to feel good.

Step 2: Call on compassion

In order to open up to new possibilities in your life, you have to honor your feelings and call on self-compassion.

Honor yourself for feeling the feelings you’ve had and the difficulties you’ve experienced in your life. Be very kind, compassionate and loving toward yourself, because opening up to creative possibilities is a radical change. You’re asking your Higher Self to step in and replace an ego belief system that you’ve likely been holding on to for decades.

In order to make that leap, you have to start from a place of  self-compassion.

Step 3: Practice appreciation

Gabby Bernstein praying | The #1 key to manifestingAppreciation is the antidote to worry, and worry is another big way that we resist creative possibilities.

I’m a recovering worrier. I used to spend countless hours worrying about things that I just couldn’t control. Finally I was ready to change, so I called on my spiritual practice. What led me out of the chaos was appreciation.

When we’re in a state of appreciation, there’s no room for worry or resistance. In fact, worry and appreciation just can’t coexist. Period.

Whenever you notice yourself worrying about something that’s out of your control, list what you appreciate. Your appreciations can be related to whatever you’re worrying out or they can be completely unrelated. It doesn’t matter. What matters is that you’re shifting your focus from the addictive pattern of worry onto a habit of appreciation.

The moment you redirect your focus onto appreciation you’ll feel better. You’ll start to feel more aligned with your Super Attractor power. Instead of obsessing over problems and worrying about outcomes, you’ll open up to creative possibilities and dwell in the receptive, high-vibration energy of appreciation.

I’ve turned to this step multiple times throughout a day when I needed it. Return to appreciation again and again.

See your experiences through the lens of appreciation

When I'm in a state of appreciation I'm in alignment with my true love nature | Super Attractor deckWe spend tons of time focusing on what we’re experiencing rather than how we’re experiencing it. As a result, we forget that we can change our experience of anything when we shift our point of focus.

We can experience any situation, even the tough ones, with more love when we choose to see them through the lens of appreciation. When you choose a lens of appreciation, you can start to find purpose in those painful moments instead of remaining the victim of the experience.

When you choose the lens of appreciation, you immediately start to reframe something that may have been very uncomfortable, turning it into a miracle. You can choose to appreciate a heartbreak as an opportunity to deeply feel, or you can appreciate a diagnosis as the catalyst for putting you on a healing path.

When you see your life through the lens of appreciation, you can forgive the past and accept it for exactly what it was. You can see your past as a great learning device on your spiritual path, and you can just let appreciation clear your path. This practice helps you shift your attention from what was to what is.

Take your practice further with Super Attractor

Super Attractor by Gabrielle BernsteinIn my book Super Attractor I teach the most powerful methods for manifesting a life beyond your wildest dreams.

These include more ways to practice appreciation, my Choose Again Method for pivoting into better-feeling thoughts, and SO much more. Super Attractor is the most upbeat book I’ve ever written. It’s filled with methods for feeling good, which is the #1 way to attract your greatest desires.

When you order the book, you’ll also get my Manifesting Jumpstart Workshop free. It prepares you for the methods in the book so you can hit the ground running!

Order your copy of Super Attractor here.

Opening up to creative possibilities is your choice

One small pivot is enough to open you up to creative possibilities. That pivot requires that you talk to yourself gently and guide your thoughts back to love in any moment. Redirect your story and say, “Yes, this is what I want. This is the direction I want.”

Use these steps to guide yourself out of obsessing over a problem, worrying about what you can’t control or resisting. Use them to guide yourself into a story of infinite creative possibilities. The Universe pivots as quickly as you do — there’s no lag time.

If you have no idea how to pivot, ask the Universe for help. Use this prayer:

Thank you, Universe, for revealing to me whatever it is that I need to see. I am open to creative possibilities.

As soon as you realign your energy, the Universe delivers. And then you start to see the creative possibilities you’ve been waiting for. Pay attention to those miracles. When you pay attention to the miracles, and when you say yes to creative possibilities, that’s when you truly begin to live a miraculous life.

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  1. I have a very hard time practicing appreciation..I’m hyper so it’s hard to focus but also my husband of 50 yrs has Parkinson’s so I feel anger, devastation, scared you name it. He has always been vibrant & outgoing & happy & now he’s slipping fast. I just can’t get into loving this experience

    1. Thank you for showing up. I had forgotten how I used to ask for guidance, then got lost along the way. But one day I rememberd and asked for help and that’s when your book The Universe has your Back jumped out at me on my phone to order on Kindle. I have just finished it and everything I needed was all there. I am now hooked for more. Thank you.

  2. Thank you Gabby for all your work and wisdom. Your message of surrendering has helped me for awhile now and sometimes I lose track and I try to control a desired outcome. I am currently going through the process of surrender once again; letting go of a relationship that I believe is meant for me but currently not in alignment. I find myself in a consistent cycle of the same choices, which any longer serve me but I’ve found myself making those choices again and again. I’ve obsessed over this situation for years and this post has definitely gave me a light to walk with as I relinquish control and surrender this relationship back to God. Thank you for being a vessel

  3. Hi Gabby. Thank you for this post. I am currently reading Super Attractor. I feel overwhelmed by multiple circumstances(finances, husband with brain tumor, son with ASD, loss of family members, aging ill parents, debt). While I can start with some of this, my days seem to be a tidal wave of issues that need to be addressed. It leaves me exhausted at the end of the day. I can’t not deal with what is happening and I feel like every time I start to feel that sense of hope and movement to something better, a huge set back or incident happens and I’m back to square one. I feel like I need to use every mantra, every meditation, every day and that feels overwhelming and exhausting. My children are my first priority and if I could help manifest health for them, I would be so grateful. So as a mom, what would you do if your child was struggling(obviously- we have medical intervention) and seems we are getting no where? Many thanks and blessings to you❤️

    1. Great question, Trish. It sounds like you are using all the tools in your spiritual tool box. As you know, prayer is the medium for asking and meditation is the medium for receiving. As you continue showing up for yourself, you may receive guidance through your spiritual practice that leads you to a wellness professional, an EMDR or EFT specialist, or a spiritual counselor who can provide treatments/resources/support for you and/or your family during this time. I am a strong believer that God works through people.

      In the meantime, you may find these blog posts helpful:
      Sending you much love.

  4. Thank you for this, its in alignment with what I’m feeling, What I find interesting is being a manifestor, yoga teacher and sober member of a 12 step program, God has always provided, on this journey to fertility it has not been that way, this has happened to many of my friends that are typically wonderful manifestors as well, many of them ended up getting help from fertility doctors etc. Where is the line when time starts running out to take action, outside of positive affirmations, prayer and meditation? If you are not attracting a baby, a job etc, when do you look for outside help? Or do you believe if it doesnt happen its not God’s will?

    1. Great questions, Lene. I do not believe that there is one answer that fits all situations. It is up to each individual to clearly express their desires, ask the universe for help, and listen to their intuition. For example, you may receive guidance through your spiritual practice that leads you to hormone expert, wellness & birth coach, fertility doctor, or any other resource that might support you during this time. I am a strong believer that the universe works through people. xoxo

  5. Hi Gabby, thank you for these pearls of wisdom. Once again you have come at a time when I am seeking this kind of help. I have used your guidance regarding abundance and it’s really paying dividends, and I often say to myself when I am doubting – the universe will deliver the same as what I am asking for or something better. It’s really working. In regards to your guidance with interaction in this blog, at the moment I have terrible problems with a woman who I work with in a confined space. I am not one for staying in a situation which affects me in a negative way, as my path as been too expensive to get me this far for a start! But I don’t know how to protect myself as she sucks the life out of me (even more so when I receive more light from the universe) and I just can’t stand it. I notice that when I go into shops after spending a day with her, that I am short with people and this is not my true nature. I will try and follow your guidance but I am so worried about coronovirus at the moment, like so many other people, and I have to work somewhere where I might get sick pay, and so I can’t go for another job. How do I stay strong and feel that the universe is protecting me, for example, with my very weak lungs? I am obviously frightened but believe in your guidance on this. Thank you Gabby. Ann

  6. Thanks so much. Perfect timing as we are facing some challenges at the moment… Looking forward to miracles as the creative possibilities unfold! Thank you! Xx

  7. I had a surprise emergency surgery. I was very ill and everyone including my doctor thought it was a herniated disk. Nope, an abscess full of pus on my spine. Now, I “should” be up and running. However I’m feeling lost. Not enough energy to do much, but no longer ill. I need to get back to my part-time job but I’m dragging my feet. Income is crucial now. After reading your blog my steps are 1) Create an appreciation list every day as of right now, 2) Write down and read often your prayer & mantras in this post and 3) Better self care. I’m going to take a much needed shower today. 4) At the top, self-compassion. Thank you Gabby.

    1. Amazing, Kat. I’m so glad this post resonates with you. Know that I’m sending you prayers and healing light as you continue to heal. xoxo

  8. Beautiful blog post – much needed with what is happening in the world as well as my current change in life. I moved away from NYC – about 10 hours away – and I feel happy but things are different. I am almost looking for issues. I can choose to see things differently and with love. I have to remind myself – This is so great! I am still close, but now even closer to my husband’s family with beautiful scenery in the mountains and close to magnificent beaches. I am in the middle of the east Coast with my loving husband and we are starting this beautiful chapter of our lives. … and still a car ride away, or short plane trip. I am open to creative possibilities because I AM a super attractor!!

    Really and truly beautiful blog post. Needed. …And absorbed.

    1. I’m grateful these tools and this work is supporting and encouraging you Liza. Sending much love and light your way. xo

  9. Good morning Gabby! From Regina Saskatchewan, Canada
    Thank you so much for sending this via email. This morning I needed to read these steps and I am filled with gratitude and love that you are willing to share your knowledge on how to be a Miracle worker every day:)
    Have an awesome day!
    Love and light sent to you!
    – Kels

  10. OMG Gabby, it is amazing how the Universe speaks to me through you. Yesterday I was telling my mom that we can’t let this fearful news catch with us, that we have to have faith that everything we want is happening around us, and the we have to let go what we can’t control.
    I am truly thankful for your guidance in my spiritual path.

  11. Thank you Gabby for breaking it down and reaffirming for me that in order to be happy I always need to react from a place of love. Super Attractor is a soothing read that I reflect on everyday and re-read weekly. I am also in recovery so you and I speak the same language. I am using your meditation and mantras with my recovery tribe. Thank you for simplifying how to live one’s best life.
    In love and gratitude,

    1. Sending you love on your recovery journey Pamela. I’m so grateful that these tools are supporting you and your tribe. You are a Super Attractor! Sending you many blessings in 2020!

  12. Thank you again Gabby for your posts that help me see the light. Your book ‘Super Attractor’ was an amazing read and had stories in there that definitely resonate with me. You always help me to align with positive thoughts especially with your prayers to the Universe as well as your mantras. Love you heaps! ❤️❤️Eils. Xxxxx

  13. I’m currently facing a challenge at my workplace and these thoughts and concepts made me feel so much better. Reading this has made me realize that I need to stop worrying, stop trying to control and convince others. I am open to creative solutions and will pivot to act from a place of love and appreciation. So valuable and I am very grateful tonight.

  14. Gabby,
    I have no words to explain how you have helped me through my life changing process. I started a healing path and there’s where I knew about you and your books through my therapist recommendation.
    I have follow every step you recommend, it’s been a tough journey rich with ups and downs, since I have lived 38 years with the so called veil.
    But through you I have discovered and new beautiful world. And the most wonderful feeling is to know that I am not alone, that my spiritual guides are always there for me, is a magical experience I am now ready to live every day. I’m still working on manifesting my desires but I have faith that the universe will someday deliver.
    Thank you, I am sure that my highest self got me to meet you.
    Sincerely with love from Mexico

    1. Nisha, I am so grateful that you have connected with this work and that it continues to support and empower you. Sending you much love. <3

  15. I’m reading Super Attractor now. It has opened my eyes to so much more of what God, this Universe has to offer.
    I’m learning to see the light in others, and appreciate this fabulous life we have. I believe!!

  16. Gabby, as always this was perfect for what I needed today. Perfect content, perfect timing. You so rock. Your card decks are like little ice boats and I adore them, their messages and the artwork so much. Thank you for being who you are and being real and raw and honest. You are loved.

  17. Thank you for this!! I really enjoyed the exercise and taking sometime to take all of this in!! I am also an excessive worrier and I can see how appreciation can turn that around! <3

  18. I’ve been suffering from really bad panic & anxiety attacks recently due to to stress, a busy work load and financial issues. Finally, I had enough and prayed. Surrendering. Asking for guidance. To make the pain stop. Sick of feeling always in survival mode. To help me so I can persusue to chase my dreams and help others.
    I felt a strange impulse intuitively to check my email. And wonderfully, this post dropped in my inbox. Oh Gabby! It’s like the universe just went….’Bam! Here ya go!’ Thank you so much for this incredible insightful wisdom. I’ve had chronic anxiety for years but this post has opened my eyes and hopefully means the start of some serious healing. X

  19. Aloha Gabby,

    Thank you so much for this post, totally arrived at the perfect time for me. I am constantly working on re-directing my focus to possibility and solutions rather than circumstance and problems….its a work in progress for sure! Massive appreciation for this suggestions and reminders. Sending big love!! Megan

  20. Thanks so much Gabby! The lessons I have learned from you are facilitating healing and growth in such amazing and beautiful ways! I cant thank you enough for your incredibly wise words! I have definitely joined the soul revolution and you my dear Gabby, have opened that door for me.
    Sending love and light to your precious little family.

    Jennifer Stone

    1. You’re welcome, Jennifer! Love that my work has inspired you! Keep shining your bright light! xoxo

  21. Hello Gabby, your e-mail just popped up in my e-mail and its what i needed to see and read.
    I have been practising gratitude for the last 2 weeks even with people that i thought were challenging and releasing my victim mindset into a more powerful mindset of that of gratitude. What is the difference between gratitude and appreciation. is one stronger than the other?
    Thank you, looking forward to your insight.

    1. Jessica, gratitude is a feeling of thankfulness. It’s like an action. Appreciation is more recognizing and enjoying the good qualities of someone or something. I hope this helps. xo

  22. It is miraculous how I was lead to this book, journal and card decks as I had been asking to have that shift, pivot in my life for a long time but this time was different. I have been receiving so much insight about unconditional love, compassion, forgiveness and healing from the past in order to take it to the next level. I just feel so supported and guided and loved by it all. Learning how to use appreciation as opposed to worry and fear has been liberating.
    I am so thankful for you Gabby- thank you for being such a beautiful light.

    1. Right on, Monica! I’m so glad that the books, journal, cards, and blog posts are resonating with you! May you continue to experience miraculous shifts! xoxo

      1. Your words always seem to show up at the perfect time. I am so grateful for this spiritual journey that has been inspired by your words.

  23. Thanks, this arrived at exactly the right time. I was/am obsessing over some issues with my business and see now that I can redirect my thoughts so I can get out of my own way!

  24. Your ideas are fabulous and make so much sense. I would love to live by your writings. . I think what I need to do is mark a time in the day as if it was an appointment and read your book. An appointment as it were an appointment for a dentist, hair appointment etc.

  25. Your message was exactly what I needed this morning. I received some stressful news regarding my job on Friday, and all weekend long my negative thoughts were on a merry-go-round that I couldn’t get to stop moving. You helped me choose again to realign my energy. I am ready to start seeing the creative possibilities that are available to me. Thank you. I appreciate you, Gabby!

    1. Wonderful, Britt. I’m so grateful that you were able to choose again and experience a shift. xoxo

  26. Thank you for this Gabby! Just what I needed to read today. Often I feel selfish for feeling good, when there’s so much darkness out in the world. However, I know that the more I’m a lightbringer, the more the rest of the world will shine the light. Feeling positive and putting positivity out into the world is a gift!

  27. Thank you Gabby!! This is so inspiring and awakening and remembering feels soul good to align with the Truth. I am aware of some cognitive dissonance. Do you have any tips for that? I love you and your service on this planet. May you forever and always be so blessed and your family too!
    Sending Love and more Love

  28. Well, this arrived perfectly. Everything you said in this post is what I’ve been dealing with in the last 24 hours. Thank you!

  29. I am in Santiago after doing the England sh Way pilgrimage. I thought about you on the Camino when I was looking for signs. I remembered you saying in one of your books that you had asked the universe for a sign, you said that it was an owl, well after I remembered I must have seen 10 owls in the next hour or two. Carry on with you excellent, inspiring work.

  30. Love the idea of seeing problems as new possibilities
    I’m in a difficult situation right now but I am looking forward to working it out and enjoying the changes that are ahead…. I shall trust in this learning journey and come through it to allow me to do something different, something I enjoy

    1. Sending you positive vibes Dawn. May this prayer serve you, “Universe, thank you for supporting me. I surrender my desires and expectations, and I pray for the highest good for all.”

  31. Thank you so much Gabby! This moment on your blog really resonated with me. I am on a path of transformation, and am taking my time with your book, meditations, and personal stories, and seeing big changes in my life as a result ❤ I’m so grateful for you and your soul. I’m a working mother of 4 small children and my husband is in the middle of a successful startup following a life threatening accident he was involved in. We took that as an opportunity to finally create the service we’d like to bring into the world. Thank you for your service to us as a constant encouragement to keep manifesting what the universe has in store for us.

    1. Jennifer, I honor you and your husband for seeing this obstacle as an opportunity. It takes strength and courage to take the next right action and make meaningful change. May you continue to lean on your spiritual practice and be guided to the right and perfect resources to support your mission. Keep shining your bright light! xoxo

  32. Thank you Gabby. The way you explain things is just really relatable and helpful. I’ve been in the coaching industry for 10+ years, and only now with a chronic fatigue diagnosis, am I beginning to realize that all these years I was still just trying to control everything – career, motherhood, success, sense of identity. It literally exhausted my body (and did not lead me to happiness/success/whatever I was after). You’d think I would have known better! But actually, most of us live SO far away from this true spiritual reality.

    Did you find when you let go of control that it was both exciting but also scary? I’m about to let go of the corporate gigs I don’t enjoy and exhaust me; allowing myself to not work for a few months, tap into my savings to support myself while I rest and listen for what’s next for me. I know it’s the next right thing – but it’s really like jumping off a cliff! Will the net really appear?

    I wonder, how do you both be receptive, but also take action… but sourced in your intuition rather than mind trying to control stuff?

    I find that combination tricky. Any thoughts or tips on this? Thanks!

    1. Great question, Marie. I’m so grateful that my work resonates with you. Here are some practices that I think you will find helpful:
      Check out this blog post:
      Try this meditation:
      Start your day with this prayer from A Course in Miracles: “Where would you have me go? What would you have me do? What would you have me say, and to whom?” Then sit in meditation to receive guidance.
      I hope this helps! xoxo

      1. Thank you so much Gabby! I really appreciate you taking the time to reply and so kindly! I will practice with these resources for sure. Warmly,

  33. Hi Gabby,
    Am loving your ‘Super Attractor’ book and emails. You have become my mentor since Wayne passed away. Your ideas/strategies are inspiring and really do work!! I’m still working on making them a habit, but I’m getting there.

    1. So grateful that this work and these tools are inspiring and empowering you Karin. You’re doing great work – keep it up! xo

  34. Thank you , Gabby.
    Perfect timing for this message as I just heard I din’t get the job I was hoping for.
    “I’m seeking solutions. All my solutions are on the way.”
    I appreciate and am grateful for so many things in my life. I will concentrate on that.
    Peace and love to you.

    1. You’re welcome, Ania. Gratitude multiplies and increases our super attractor power! Something better is on the way! xoxo

  35. Wow Gabby thank you so much for this reminder…… reading this e-mail it clicked…. I was attracting the “can’t afford” “no money” people into my business I couldn’t figure out why I am having such a huge dip in business, then I got your e-mail, I will go back to my Super Attractor podcast and follow the steps again thank you for this

  36. This comes at the perfect moment as a person I work closely with disappointed me with his actions and lack of values in dealing with a situation. I have already spent two hours digesting this and worrying, even though it was his own call and I had no influence on it. Now I feel so much relief after reading the blog and following your advice, especially saying a prayer and realizing “This is his story, this is not my story” (I’m printing that out to look at everyday). And then turning to appreciation for all great that is here, and there is a lot of greatness! Thank you with great appreciation 🙂 Andrea

    1. You’re welcome, Andrea. I’m so glad that this practice was delivered to you at the right and perfect time. Amazing that you’re willing to see the situation differently. Sat Nam, sister! xoxo

  37. Hey Gabby, these words touch my heart so deeply. Thank you so much. It feels so on point right now. I appreciate that the universe answers my prayers and shows me so valuable lessons.
    Sending much love to you

      1. Gabby, You are simply Amazing!! Thank you So much for the guidance on practicing joy and love!! We tend to forget sometimes but it’s so much easier to just follow the love path! It is truly miraculous!! Looking forward to meeting you in May for your Tampa Workshop!! Can’t wait!!

        Best Always,

  38. Hi Gabby,
    Thank you for this post. I wanted to ask about your knowledge/belief system about timing. How does karma and things like astrological influences affect our alignment with creative possibilities and manifestation. For example, if someone is yet to complete some kind of cycle in their life that needs to be seen through to its completion, then I imagine that realigning their energy may help with some of the discomfort associated with a difficult time in their life, but will not help manifest something if it is not the right time for it. What are your thoughts around this?

    1. Great question, Jaime. I can’t speak to karma or astrological influences- but I do believe that the universe has a plan for us and it unfolds at the right and perfect time to support the highest good for all involved. That being said, if we are ready for love but our right and perfect parter still has work to do, we may not manifest that particular relationship until our partner has completed their assignment. By showing up for our assignments and realigning our energy, we make ourselves available (an energetic match for) for our desires and for whatever the universe has planned for us. I hope this helps! xo

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