My wedding favors were blessings. (I was not overthinking this aspect of wedding planning!) 

When I was getting married, my best friend, Micaela—who’s basically my rabbi—said the most amazing thing to me. 

“Gabby,” she said as she adjusted my veil, “you are the closest to God you’ve ever been today. On your wedding day, you and your partner have mystical powers. You can give people blessings.” 

>>> I was SUPER into this idea! 

But even before Micaela told me that, I intuitively knew it.

With love all around me, I could feel the energetic power that I held … and I was ready to put it to use. 

So at our wedding reception, I gave out blessings like candy. 

Let me tell you … it WORKED! 

After getting a Gabby bridal blessing, one person went on to get a green card. Another one had a baby … and on and on the miracles went! 

But it wasn’t because I manifested these things for my wedding guests. 

It was because they were willing to lean into love with me. 

>>>The power of love isn’t just a pop song! 

It’s a very real force that you can tap into any time to amp up your manifesting power and uplift everyone around you. 

Want to learn to lean toward love? I’ve got you! Press play on this week’s podcast to get the lowdown on love, Dear Gabby-style. 

I’ll also riff on:

  • A spiritual solution to job loss (and a powerful exercise to help you attract a new job)
  • My best tip for anyone considering a career change 
  • A mantra to help you instantly release fear 
  • How to stop overthinking and start making decisions with ease 
  • A beautiful way to support loved ones WITHOUT draining your own energy 
in stillness I receive Dear Gabby Gabby Bernstein

Hear the Voice of Love

In this episode of Dear Gabby I’ll hook you up with a powerful tool that will let you tune out the voice of fear and hear the voice of love … loud and clear! 

One of my callers was struggling with indecision. 

She was overthinking her next career step

And as she overthought, she blocked her inner voice of wisdom. 

^^We all fall into the overthinking trap sometimes. And that’s because we haven’t learned how to sit still and let the voice of love come through. 

Don’t sweat it! I’m here to help. 

On today’s Dear Gabby I share a method you can use any time you need to get clear on a major decision. 

A Journaling Exercise to Help You Stop Overthinking

Find a quiet, comfortable place to sit and grab your favorite journal. Open yourself up to this beautiful journaling exercise, which will help you make decisions with ease and stop overthinking.  

You’ll need a journal and a pen, and you can bring along anything else that inspires you … you might play soothing music, for example, or hold a crystal that’s infused with meaning.

At the top of the page, write, Thank you, presence of love, for writing through me. 

Take a moment to meditate on the question that inspired you to journal. Surrender this question to your spirit guides either silently or out loud. 

Then … write! 

^^It’s really that simple. Write freely, without an agenda, for at least 10 minutes. Write down anything that comes to mind, without editing a word. Do NOT overthink this!

When you’re done, take a moment to reflect on what you’ve written. Highlight any words that make you feel particularly good; those words are the voice of love coming through! 

And as I explain on this episode of Dear Gabby, any decision you make from a grounded state of love will be the right decision. 

You don’t even have to have mystical bridal powers to access that state. 

That higher state is available to each and every one of us, at all times. Don’t underestimate the power of your energy!

Click here to tap into the power of love.

Get More Gabby

The following are helpful resources and books I mention in the episode: 

MIRACLE MEMBERSHIP: Want even more support? I created the Miracle Membership to help you design a spiritual practice you can stick to every day. Each week I deliver brand new coaching practices, guided meditations, community connection and so much more. And this year, we’ll have a 21-day challenge each quarter! Plus, it’s easy to access on your phone, computer or tablet. Click here to join. 


In today’s Dear Gabby, I read a passage from Spirit Junkie. I hope this passage moved you—I thought it was a beautiful basis for today’s show. If you want more advice about leaning into love, check out the book

Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace, comes out 2/22/22! In this book—my most important one yet—I share the 9 therapeutic tools that helped me recover from trauma. I make these tools super accessible, so that you can use them too. Preorder your copy here. And if you’ve suffered trauma with a little t or a big T, know that help is on the way. 

AND … if you preorder the book before February 7, 2022, you’ll get a VIP ticket to my Happy Days Live Online Event Experience. This is the first event I’ve hosted in TWO years. Can you feel my excitement? In this daylong event, you’ll experience deep immersion into the core tenets of the book … and much, much more. The experience is valued at $550, but you can get it here for FREE when you preorder Happy Days! Click here for all the details

MORE SUPPORT: If you need any more support, I’ve created a list of mental health resources that I trust. Please use these resources any time you feel they could benefit you. I’m proud of you for being here.


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