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I like to call this time of year ‘the manifesting season’ and with my 21-Day Manifesting Challenge kicking off on January 1st, I want to get you geared up for what’s to come.

So today on Dear Gabby, I’m sharing my wildest manifesting stories!

In this episode, you’ll learn:

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  • How to recognize signs from the Universe
  • Proof that manifesting is real
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dear gabby #236 Dec 09, 2024 manifesting

my wildest manifesting stories: gabby’s greatest manifesting moments

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Hey there. Welcome to Dear Gabby. I'm your host, Gabby Bernstein. And if you landed here, it is absolutely no accident. It means that you're ready to feel good and manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams. Hello, my friends. It is that time of year. It is here. It is manifesting season. And I'm so psyched to tell you that the 21 Day Manifesting Challenge is back.

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So head over to DearGabby.com/manifestingchallenge. Welcome back to Dear Gabby, people. Welcome back. Joshie and I are recording in sunny Los Angeles. What a surprise. We're in the [00:02:00] Dear Media studios on the road. We've been on the road. We've been on the road. We have been. We were in Phoenix yesterday.

Yep. Then we did a talk. That was a great talk. It was a beautiful talk. We'll share some of it on the show. Yeah, for sure. We'll share a little bit of it. Uh, we'll, clips or whatever. It was such a good talk. It was a bunch of hairdressers, and we talked about how the hairdressers were herapists. Herapists. I died when that woman said that.

Because it's like when you get in someone's chair, they're like a therapist. Yeah. Yeah. It was so great. Yeah. It was beautiful. So we talked about so many cool things. And here we are now we're in the dear media studios in LA and we are going to have a really good episode for you today. This is all about some of my top manifesting moment.

Yeah, this is fun. This is really fun. Some of the stories of just wild synchronicity, the stories of when the universe really showed up in my face like a billboard, those moments when you look at your life and you realize that. You're not living in this world, just your human body lugging around this flesh and this body, but you're actually a spirit among spirits having a spiritual [00:03:00] experience.

So beautiful. That's what today is about. Yeah. It's a beautiful episode and we're right here in manifesting season. We are. We're deep in it. Deep. We are in it shouting from the rooftops. It is manifesting challenge season. Yeah. Gotta get in early people because the sooner the challenge starts on January 1st and it's my 21 day manifesting challenge.

It is my most sought after event of the year. It is. 150, 000 people have gone through the challenge. I giggle because it's just so It's so massive. We'll get to 200, 000 this year, probably. I think we will because this is, people all over the world are doing the challenge. I meet people, you're with me in the airport, random people come up to me, I did your manifesting challenge.

I did. And maybe they'll read books and things like that, but everyone's done the challenge. It's like the thing to do. And you know, what's interesting to me, like when you talk to these people who, who, you have gone through the challenge and have experienced manifesting. It's such a range of things that people manifest for, right?

That's what is always interesting to me. Like, oh, super cool. Not just a sort [00:04:00] of object, but it's sort of a larger, they're manifesting oftentimes just feeling good, but people got married. I've seen all, you know, babies. Yeah. No, that's what I mean. It's such a spectrum of, It's such a spectrum. Yeah. I love that.

So if you're thinking about the manifesting challenge, don't, don't hesitate. Go to dearGabby.com/manifestingchallenge. You get all the details. If you get in early, there's the pre training, so you just get in there people, you don't miss it now. Like today, like right this second, dearGabby.com/manifestingchallenge. And so in the spirit of manifesting and in this season of preparing for what's coming, we're going to riff today about some of my big manifesting stories. I love this because I love when we get to sort of dive into Gabby life for a little bit. It's really fun.

And this came up because what happened, Josh? You got this message. Well, we got this message from somebody and I'll just read it. Yeah. Just read us the message. So this came in, I would love to watch a video with your top 10 manifesting experiences. Would love to hear the major [00:05:00] ones and maybe some less spectacular ones too.

There's so much to talk about on this topic. Maybe apart from the theory, there can be some clear examples of manifestation actually happening in your own life. And we do. You have so many of them. All day, every day. We way to the bathroom. Like, Oh, this, I did this and da, da, da. Everything. Your life is a manifestation when you start to.

tap into the spiritual realm. And that's, that's actually been my experience that when I'm in alignment with my spiritual connection and when I feel calm and connected, when I'm in self, which is what we talk about in the new book, and I mean, that's resourced part of myself when I'm feeling connected and compassionate and courageous and calm, that's when, um, the synchronicities become normal.

That's when manifesting is the, the natural effect of life. And there's beautiful extreme moments where you're just like, holy shit, how did that [00:06:00] happen? But there's also these moments where we just have to really accept and recognize that that's normal. And there's this beautiful message which we share often on the show from A Course in Miracles that miracles are natural.

And when they do not occur, something has gone wrong. So it's natural to manifest. It's our natural state. Does that resonate with you? I never really thought about it like that, but yeah, it makes complete sense, right? It's like almost like the path of least resistance, right? Like why go against it? the grain, let it flow and it'll all just unfold.

What you're saying is actually super cool because when you study the, I studied the teachings of Abraham Hicks and the Abrahams, like these, these spiritual entities that this woman Esther Hicks channeled and the Abrahams say that there's only a stream of well being and it either flows or it doesn't, but it's your choice to flow.

And that flow is It's in our world. We have the [00:07:00] chance to flow and to be in the synchronicity of the world and the universe, but we block it. There's only a stream of wellbeing. We're either in the floor or not. And so we have this access. I have lots of stories of how that access has presented itself to me.

There's just so many, Josh. Where should we begin? Well, let's begin with the big one, right? There was somebody that you were like, you had your eye on getting on somebody's show. And you just, I'm being a little, yeah. Oh yeah. Okay, great. There's a good one. Yeah. I think that's a beautiful place to start. So when I was early in my career, maybe I chose two or three books in, three books then.

I was probably 31 years old ish. I don't remember exactly, but I think it was about 31. I had this vision at the time. The Holy Grail was Oprah. It still is, but I think now it's like the TikTok star couldn't be blow up your book or whatever. But at the time I was like, you get on Oprah and your book is just going to be a bestseller.

And I [00:08:00] was already a few years into my career and The dream was Oprah. I had this image of Oprah on a vision board. I would sit and I would meditate with this just image of Oprah all the time. I was just breathing into the feeling of what it would feel like to be sitting next to her, having a spiritual conversation.

The Oprah show was over and she was doing Super Soul Sunday and it was the early days of Super Soul Sunday. And I was like, this is my show. I mean, she wants to talk about spirituality. Like, this is a show I want to be on. Every day in my meditation, I would sit there and I would just visualize and visualize.

And then in the visions, I started to feel and feel more and more connected and more and more aligned with that feeling. And then one afternoon I was working at my desk and I wrote down on a post it, I'm ready to be on Oprah. Like I just, it came through me like an inner knowing I wrote it down. I kid you not the next day, the next day, a phone call comes in from Chicago number, your [00:09:00] hometown, my hometown.

And I was like, who's calling me from Chicago? I thought, well, I pick up the phone. It's this woman. She goes, Hi, my name is Cornelia. I'm the producer at Harpo. I'm calling to talk to you about doing a segment on Super Soul Sunday. And I literally said to her, I was expecting this call. Kid you not. No that's insane.

To the day. So that's just, that's the big, that's the big O. That's the big O. And that manifestation was amazing. Such a pinnacle turning point for me because it really did give me this launchpad for my career and for the mission driven work I was here to do. And it was when I let it go, when I was just focused on the feeling of what it would feel like to be sitting with Oprah, that it really did manifest.

I wasn't strangling the desire. I wasn't thirsty. I wasn't like overly pitching myself. I was just sort of like, okay, this will be what it's going to be. And they found me. It's like you talked about at the very beginning of this episode in the flow. You just got in the flow. It's funny when you said that I have this image [00:10:00] of, I don't know if you ever saw finding Nemo.

Yeah. And so there's a stream of creatures that like, there's like a jet stream that they flow, and that's kind of how I see it. And you like can see it. You know, you kind of got to jockey your way in, but once you get in, you're in the flow and it'll take you all the way across the ocean. Yeah. And you have to jockey your way in because the world is taking you out so much.

And so you get back into adjustment. And then you're in the Nemo and then you're in, yeah, then you're gonna find Nemo. You're gonna find Nemo a whole new meaning to it. But that's all I can see is like just this energetic flow, like a path, like, you know, that's a beautiful visual. I like that a lot. And when you were talking about Oprah, it was like, oh, the note was just the last moment.

Like you, you've got to the others to that point. That note was, yeah, I know this is coming. I feel it coming. And then boom, you'll actually notice a manifestation is coming closer. You might feel into it. You might feel the sensation of it. In fact, when you go through the 21 day challenge, You, as people say, [00:11:00] they feel this experience towards the end of the challenge where they start to feel like things are speeding up for them and they start seeing more synchronicities and more angel signs and it's so rad.

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Let's talk about a sign story. Let's go into a sign story. Sure. I love this one. It's from Super Attractor. It's around the time that I was manifesting my child. And I was, if you've listened and followed me for a while, you might know that I struggled for about three years trying to conceive my son. And it was really hard for me.

I was really, really sad and just sort of consistently bummed out, kept failing and just wasn't happening. Towards the journey where I was ready to do some fertility treatment, I was doing IUI, which is the turkey baster, a little bit of stimulation, and then they time your ovulation. [00:15:00] And I was feeling like the first round that I did did not work.

And I remember I had asked my son for a sign, give me a sign of lilies to let me know that you are indeed on the way. I wasn't sure how they'd show up, but they would show up and the lilies would come in different forms. Somebody might send me lilies. It's just a beautiful thing. They would just show up.

And then they did this first round of IUI and I thought like I'd been trying for three years and now I'm doing fertility treatment should just work. And I got the call and the doctor was like, it didn't work. We'll try again next round. And I was so shook by this. And I walked into my husband's office and I sat down on his lap.

And I was remember this so vividly. I was sitting with him and I was in his lap and I was just crying. I was like, just crying, crying, crying. And his phone was on the desk. It was locked. Like the second you shut your phone, put your phone on it locks out of nowhere. This song [00:16:00] starts playing. Way go, Lily.

Way go, Lily. What the hell, man? Way go, Lily. And do you want to hear it? It gets even crazier. Yeah. Look at the album title, read it out loud. I See the Sign. That's, I can't. No, I can't. I really can't. That's the title of the f ing album. I can't. The title, the song is called Way Go Lily, and the title of the album is I See the Sign, and I'm crying in my husband's arms.

I'm, I'm really just shook. And then out of nowhere, this song starts playing. Way go Lily, way go Lily. And I look at it and I'm like, wait, what is that? I go to turn off the phone and then I start listening to the lyrics. I lose my mind. And then I look closer and the album is I see the sign. I see the sign.
I see the sign.

You cannot. Make this up. No, you can't make it up. And then [00:17:00] a month later I was pregnant. Wow. Really? Yeah. The next round, next round. Yeah. That's insane. Insane. Hey, it's insane. Cause I don't think I've ever heard that story. You haven't. No. Yeah. And that's blowing me away. Not really surprising. Whoa. That's a mind blower.

Whoa. Mind bender. Yeah. Isn't it beautiful? It's really beautiful. It's so beautiful. It's so beautiful. It's so beautiful. It's also beautiful because then, if you know your son, what, what was created, what arrived for you, what landed is just really special because he's, It's really extraordinary. Little kid.

Yeah. And he and I talk about the angels and the guides, you know, he believes and he talks with angels all the time. It's so special. I love that. So those, that's a great one because it was such a low moment and the universe will deliver when you need those messages, but we have to ask for them. I was gonna say how if we have to ask, that's one of the keys, right?

Ask and it is given. It's the beautiful Abraham Hicks message. Ask and it is given. Ask and it is given. If you [00:18:00] don't ask, if you're not opening your heart to receive these messages, you will not receive. You will not receive. So opening your heart. In a way where you have the willingness and you have the desire.

And I just kept saying, show me the sign, show me the sign. And then this album, I see the sign, Waygo Lily. Can't make it up, cannot make it up. When I, I can feel when I'm out of that flow, right? And I think for me, the training myself to be able to like, Oh, recognize it, check in, find out what's, you know, what's the block and get back in.

Yeah. That's the important thing for me. Yeah. I would say that. witnessing and recognizing that you're out of alignment is going to be the theme of this season that we're in right now with my book, self help, because so much of the book is about checking in when we're checked out. So when we notice, okay, I'm not in alignment with source.

I'm not in [00:19:00] alignment with the flow. I'm out of that Nemo flow. I need to get back in. This is your way to jigger back in self help. Self help is a four step process of just checking in with the dysregulation and coming back to regulation. And, you know, go pre order the book, everybody, go pre order the book, it's out December 31st.

And it is, there's, so this is the tool. So there's an answer to that, right? We're going to get, we're going to be out of alignment most of the time. The reason I live in alignment the majority of the time is because I've literally been training for 20 years. of just training my brain, my nervous system, writing 10 books on this topic, of coming back, coming back, coming back.

And of course the challenge, the manifesting challenge, the 21 days is the perfect way to get into that alignment. Get in. It's 21 days of alignment and you're in that alignment and you come back and you come back and you come back. And so that's on January 1st. I'm going to keep reminding everybody.

DearGabby.com/manifestingchallenge. Yeah, no, I mean, it's great. Don't miss it. [00:20:00] Yeah. And so let's see, there's probably one more story I could give you. Okay. Well, there's a small one. A small one? Yes. Well, it's sort of selfish, but like, it's the show. Our show. Our show, Dear Gabby. Yes. This was a really small one, but it was a big one.

Sometimes we manifest things that we actually don't know that we want. But then we get them. Okay, this is, this is cool. Oh, I love that. So in 2020, world went into lockdown. I got on Instagram and I went wild. And I started doing a show called Dear Gabby on my Instagram. Every Wednesday at 12 o'clock, thousands of people throughout the world would come on. 

I would bring them live on my Instagram and I would Dear Gabby them. I would coach them. I would do my own makeup. I would do my own lighting. I would do my own everything. I was like, but I would never fail. And I literally have like literally hardcore fans like that still find me. And they're like, remember when we were on Dear Gabby?

And at the time, everyone was doing a podcast. I didn't want a podcast. I was like, I'm too busy. I'm writing my books. I'm doing these things. I didn't want a podcast, but I never, my friends, Lewis Howes and Jay Shetty Rowe was like, do a podcast. I never wanted it, but I was [00:21:00] doing this show. And out of the joy of this show, I was just feeling such.

Ignited spirit. And sometimes when we're in joy, the universe will show us what to do. And we'll be given these opportunities that we otherwise might have avoided or missed. But when we're in joy, we get back into that Nemo flow. The universe presents to us exactly what we need. And so out of nowhere, about six months into doing the show, Dear Gabby, I started getting calls from different podcasts.

networks. I got a call from this amazing guy, Max Cutler, who at the time was working at Spotify, like did some huge shows, call her daddy, whatever. And Max was interested in working with me or just getting to know me. Even that was like driftwood. Okay. You know, there was a sign that the universe was like, you should do a show.

Max Cutler is calling you. And then I got a call from these agents and they wanted to sign me for the podcast. And so I was looking at the signs and instead of deflecting it or saying, I don't want to do that, I was curious. And I said, okay, universe, what is it that you want me to do? And very quickly, once I said [00:22:00] yes to what the universe was delivering, I realized this little show I was doing on my Instagram was actually a podcast and I could reach far more listeners and I could have it be something that could be evergreen and out in the world.

And it was about a month later, we sold the show to here, dear media. Here we are. And the rest is history. Yeah. And here we are. Years later, years later, hundreds of episodes later, millions and millions of listeners. It's really beautiful because that manifestation came not out of force, but out of freedom.

It came from not pushing, but being present and being in the joy when you were saying like, Oh, I wasn't looking, I wasn't looking for a podcast, but you were looking and manifesting to amplify your voice. I wanted to show, I wanted something, I wanted to have some format to get my work out in a bigger way.

And this was what was delivered to me. Exactly. And that's, I think, a really important message I know for me where it's like, like you said, it's like, well, in my mind I have this, but the [00:23:00] universe is like, no, it's going to be like this. It's going to be different. Yeah. The universe has a better plan than you do.

We talk about that in the manifesting challenge. It's like really helping people surrender. There's a whole day on surrender and the challenge, because when you think you've surrendered, you have to surrender more. We do not want to override the universe. We want to let go and allow the stream of well being to take over and.

You are always in this dream of well being. There's always a stream of well being. You're going to decide to flow or you're not going to flow. That's it. Yeah.

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Did you have another one or do you want me to give you a rando? Well, I was going to ask you a question. Great. This is a very broad question, but did you in essence manifest your career and the life you have. Of course, everything in my life is a manifestation, good and bad. You know, there's times in my life where I was probably some physical issues were manifestations of extreme stress, right?

So our bodies manifest as well. It's not, not to scare anybody, but you know, when we're in a perpetual state. Which I was in for so many years when I had undiagnosed trauma and I was associated from the trauma. I didn't know what it was. I was just in such a perpetual state of hypervigilance and fear and dissociation.

I manifested physical issues, you know, so it's, it's, it's not something to be scared of. It's something to be aware of that our beliefs, our thoughts create [00:29:00] beliefs and our beliefs are what manifest. It's true. And so when we have these core beliefs that are so strong in some negative direction, we need to do the work to really heal those belief systems.

Here we are again, self help. This is your chance to change your life. The book will show you. So if you, you know, I joke around, like I've written books, like the universe has your back and super attractor, but the number one manifesting book is right here is self help. Because if you change the seat of your soul, if you adjust the nervous system, if you can heal the beliefs that are holding you back, Then anything is possible, anything, period.

Mic drop. Mic drop. I literally have nothing to say to that, but because that's, what a message. I wonder if we should ask for some synchronicity today. Universe show Josh and I some, and whoever is listening and our listeners, a sign. You can ask for your sign right now. Everybody ask for a sign from the universe that you're on the right track. I can't begin to tell you. So I usually see sparks of light. Yep. And there it's a white show right now in my world. Really? Yes. [00:30:00] All day. It's been like sparky, sparky, sparky. And the sparks are a spirit. They're piercing through the veil. And so I literally am seeing like tinsel everywhere and channeling like crazy.

And so let's, let's, let's ask for our sign. What's our sign? What should our sign be? Well, A buffalo? A buffalo. We were talking about buffaloes today. Oh no, I was talking about buffaloes with Jessica. Oh, jump on the buffalo train. I just thought it, so I said it, right? There's no connection to it. There's just, I had a conversation about a buffalo today, but that was the first thing I thought of, and that's our sign, okay?

So Josh and I are going to ask for a buffalo to show us that we're on the right track, that we've got spirits around us, that we're being guided. So everybody out there, ask for your sign right now, whatever it might be, don't think, just whatever is the first thing that comes to your mind, that's your sign, and ask the universe to just show you that you're on the right track.

Figure on the right track for them that you're show them to show you that they're guiding you. The universe is guiding you. Your spirit guides are guiding you. I have so many more manifesting stories. I love the Grammy story. Oh, that. And we've taught, we might've told it before on the show, but I think we can close with Fritzy.

I love it. It's so beautiful. It's [00:31:00] so good. We're going to blow our producers mind today. Okay. You ready for this one, babe? Okay. We're going to knock your socks off. Okay. So. We have a spirit guides, our guide, we talk about that a lot on this show. You can go listen to any of our spirit guides episodes.

There's a day in the manifesting challenge where I guide you to connect your spirit guides. That's fun. And for me, I know now that one of my guides is my grandma Fritzi and she's always with me. In fact, this is crazy. This is crazy. Before I even get into this. in my phone on my photos. When you go to your photos in your phone, right?

It just shows you the most recent photo, right? Nothing stuck in the front row. Look at what is stuck in the front row of my phone. It's a picture of me and my grandfather. There's another one that's stuck in the front row. Me and my Grammy and my grandfather. Okay. This is insane. You guys, it won't move.

These are from January 14th. It says 2077. That's what it says, . That's what it says. [00:32:00] 2077, huh? January 15th. How old would I be in 2077? Well, that's almost 50. Four years. So I'd be 90, a hundred? Yeah, almost a hundred. Almost a hundred. So maybe that's when I, maybe this is when I pass that, that number is there.

This would be interesting. Well, to have somebody listen back in seven, in 54 years, put it in the time capsule. Yeah. I'd be 99. I'd be 99. Is that right? So this could be when my life is coming to an end because that's what it says. It says January 14th, 2077. I'm just making this up now, but maybe it would be the end.

This could be my time to come back and be with them. That's the date that's saved with these photos of my grandparents in my phone. Now it gets crazier. Talking to my mom one day, randomly, she goes, she's going through her pictures, trying to show me something. Oh, it's so weird. I have these two photos, Grammy and Grampy, saved in my phone.

They won't leave my phone. The same [00:33:00] photos are saved in my mother's phone. I have to check if it's the same date that I have, 2077. Well, I got to text her later. We have to find out. And they're in her phone too. That's crazy. That's crazy. Stuck there. Nothing can override it. Yeah. The day. 2077. Yeah. What? The day.

So Grammy and Grampy stuck their photos there. This is actually even before Grammy's story. Then there's another story. When my grandfather died, I had a BlackBerry. She doesn't know what a BlackBerry is. And day, I opened my BlackBerry and it was to the notes, there was like a little notes thing. And it said, Grampy is with you.

Mm hmm. Mm hmm. So they work through technology spirit will work through this is them working through the phone. Yeah. There's some significance to 2077. It could be that that's what I pass at 99 years old and I meet them. I'll hold that. I'm in a nice life. Right. And I meet them at that time. That might be what it is.

I'm going to ask my mom what her date is. We have to call her after this and find out what, can we ask Rebecca [00:34:00] Rosen when we see her? Yes. We'll see our medium friend, Rebecca Rose. I mean, I'm a medium too. So maybe I'm hearing like that is the answer. Maybe my intuition is actually accurate, but we can get it confirmed by Rebecca.

Yeah. Yeah. Although she's not going to be able to tell me when my time of death is. Right. And she probably wouldn't wouldn't and she can't. Right. Because that's one thing they will not tell you. Yeah. So I'm just assuming I'll be 99. I love that. I got work to do here, people. I'll stick around. So, so Grammy, my, my grandmother was very close to me and she had a, a big fall towards the end of life.

Right. And around that time, I, like a few weeks after the fall, I was, We were worried. We didn't want to have to live with pain and on medication. It was just a mess. And so a few weeks after the fall, I was preparing to go to lead a retreat in Massachusetts. And I was with Jessica from our team and some other team members.

And I was like, you know what, guys, we have to get in the car to leave, but I need to go meditate before we leave. And so I went into my bedroom and I meditated. And in my meditation, my hands started lifting up like, like to, to the sky. And this isn't unfamiliar for me. It's like when I get that stream, my hands can do interesting things.

And so my [00:35:00] hands are up in the sky and it feels as though this energy is lifting from my hands as if I'm facilitating, like, like a passing, like a passage for something. Like I'm giving something away. Knock on the door in the middle of the meditation. Gabby, your mother's on the phone. Go to the phone. Mom says.

Grammy just passed minutes ago. And I said, I know I was helping her pass. Okay. That's step one. Then I'm like, Grammy, I love you. I'm so happy. You're not going to live in pain. I got to go teach this workshop. Give me some signs that you're good. So I go teach the workshop. I'm connecting to her energetically throughout the week, but I was too busy.

So I wasn't in the stream. The end of the week, I get in the car, I drive to my friend Zoe's house on my way home. And it was Zoe and Jenny, my friends. And at the table, we're sitting there having tea, and Zoe's like, Darling, darling, you have to pull a card from my deck, this new deck, I want you to pull a card.

And she kept asking me to pull a card, pull a card. Not asking Jenny, asking me. It was like a nudge. And I was like, Zoe, I'm just texting [00:36:00] Zach, I need to pick out food for dinner, blah, blah, blah. And my friend Jenny's like, I'll pick a card for Gabby. This was like all about my card, they were so focused on it.

So Jenny pulls this card from a tarot deck. On the card is an image of an elderly woman crossing over a bridge. This, the caption under the image says, grandmother ensures safe crossing. I don't know. Every time I hear it, I'm just like, holy shit, holy shit. So grandmother ensures safe crossing. I did take a picture of that.

I've got to dig up the picture. I'll find it. She's going to deliver the picture to me. She was sending me a buffalo too. And when you heard that, what was the sensation in your body? You were like. Good question. We were like, holy, we were just so excited and so blown away. It was just, but it was reassurance.

Of course. I felt so much reassurance that Grammy was there and that I knew that she was safe. And now whenever I channel, she's like, and you know, she used to call me [00:37:00] little nose. And so sometimes I'll feel like a little tickle on my nose when I'm channeling her or somebody else's channeling for me.

Grammy's swoops in. Like, she's like, I'm first, she's a boss. She's like, I need to tell you what's going on. And she'll say things like little nose. That's like her sign for me. And it's just, you know, it's beautiful because we don't have to live feeling like we're in these bodies lugging them around until we die.

We can be in the awe and the just, just beautiful grace of the universe. And we can have these auspicious moments and let them be real. It's manifesting Israel. It is real. And one of the things I love about what you're saying in this moment, and it goes, With all of your teachings is that it's all interconnected, right?

Mm. Like you, you're not talking about angels over here and spirit guides over there. Mm-hmm . And me and meditation here and manifest. It's all so beautifully connected and I think the story of your grandmother is a beautiful example of that. Yeah. And I think what you're saying too is that it's not, there's not a spiritual part of our life.

We live a spiritual [00:38:00] life when we welcome that presence into our life, we can have a lot more fun. We feel completely guided and our intuition can show us where to go and what to do. So there's my invitation to everybody. Join me. I want to help you get into that. That you're getting to your Nemo flow with me people get into the Nemo flow into the Nemo flow.

Join me. Let's do the challenge together. I want to. Bring thousands of people. I think we're going to have 50, 000 people this year. That's my psychic hit and 50, 000 people. Let's go together starting January 1st, get into the flow of that stream of wellbeing together. Go to deargabby.com/manifestingchallenge.

I want to help you do it. Let's do it. Let's do it. Let's do it. Do it together. Yeah. And I think this is the message to close with truly is that that. ability to have these wild synchronicities is so natural that it can be the norm for you, can be the natural order. And I want that for everyone. I love that.

So beautiful. So beautiful. All right, my friends, [00:39:00] we'll see you next week and I'll definitely see you inside the manifesting challenge. Deargabby.com/manifestingchallenge. See you there. All right. Thanks, Joshie. Thank you.

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