Editor’s Note: This post was updated in 2018 for clarity and additional resources.
In this blog post I want to talk to you about how to trust in the healing path.
This can be really scary and sometimes just exhausting. It’s a lot easier and can feel a lot safer to check out and fall into an addictive pattern, whether that’s picking up a drink or getting obsessed with work, instead of staying on the healing path.
But one of the first things I learned in my sober recovery is a lesson that still gives me chills: If you put anything before your recovery, you will lose it.
This lesson applies to any kind of healing. So instead of checking out, join me on the healing path and TRUST in the healing path.
In the video below I share 3 steps to follow. Watch it and take these steps to heal past wounds, trust in the healing path and experience miracles.
Why it’s important to trust in the healing path
Before I get into the three steps that I outline in the video, I want to say this: Whether you know my work well or you’ve landed on my website for the first time, there’s a reason you’re on this page right now. There’s something that’s up. You’re ready to heal something. Maybe you’re remembering something, or you’re ready to show up for that experience from your past, or you’re ready to heal that addictive pattern. Maybe you’re ready to change your attitude.
Whatever it is that you’re ready to heal deserves your attention and your focus. If you bulldoze past your recovery, you’ll keep having the same assignments show up in your life over and over and over again.
Before I share these steps I also really want to be very compassionate about wherever you are. I understand that when something comes up and it needs to be healed, it can be horrifying. It can be so scary. It can be debilitating. I know the feeling of just not wanting to deal with it, especially if you’ve been on a journey of dealing with a lot of healing and then another thing comes up and now you have to deal with it again. (Here is a tool you can use in the moment to release anxiety.)
Recently I had something come up that is probably the most important thing I’ll ever heal in my life. I’m remembering a past experience and it’s time for me to heal it. I have to really trust in the healing path. I don’t know exactly how this will be healed, but I trust in the path. I’m sharing these three steps with you to help you trust in the healing path and to stay committed to it myself.
Step 1: Be willing to heal
The first step is to be willing to heal, to really, really be willing to heal. I was talking to a woman I mentor recently, and she was just like, “I don’t want to do it. I don’t want to get into it. I don’t want to remember the trauma. I don’t want to get into the story.”
I said to her, “Listen. All you need is the slightest willingness and that willingness will open the doors for you. That willingness will help you pick up the phone and call me. It will get you into your therapy session. It will set you free.” Simply being willing to heal will set you on the healing path and keep you on it. It will allow whatever you need to come through.
Step 2: Surrender to a higher power by praying daily
The next step in trusting in the healing path is to pray. Get into a daily prayer practice of surrendering your plan, surrendering your patterns and turning it over to a power greater than you. All you have to do is say something like, “I am willing to heal. Show me where to go and what to do. I’m ready to receive guidance, I’m ready to change my patterns and I’m ready to heal.”
In that prayer, you humbly surrender your fears, your blocks and all that is standing in your way of true healing. Praying is a way of getting in communication with the guidance that is always supporting you. This is the most important conversation you could have all day long.
Step 3: Receive the support that comes your way
The final step in trusting in the healing path is to just receive the support that comes your way. Receive the support of the people that come your way. Receive the support of the therapy or the video or the yoga teacher or the book — whatever it is that lands in your lap. Because it will. When you open up to healing, what you need will be given to you. But you have to be open to receiving it. You have to have your arms wide open saying, “Yes, bring it on. I’m ready.”
Take it one day at a time, especially in early recovery of addiction or trauma or anything that is very, very scary. It’s a one-minute-at-a-time gig. It’s not something that you can do overnight. Do not rush your recovery. Do not avoid your recovery. Make a commitment to show up for it and be in the presence of it one moment at a time.
I want to be here for you. Please post comments below. I’m here to support you. Let me know how you’re doing, how you’re feeling. You can even just post below that you’re willing to heal. Making that statement publicly will greatly serve your path.
Get inspired on your healing path by reading my memoir, Spirit Junkie
In my memoir, I open up about my own recovery from addiction to alcohol, drugs and codependent relationships.
I share the story of how I transformed my life, offering my spiritual journey as a guidebook for overcoming fear, changing perceptions and creating a life you’re psyched to wake up for. I traded self-doubt and addiction for a new kind of high!
Throughout Spirit Junkie I teach lessons from the metaphysical text A Course in Miracles, share practical and spiritual tips, and guide you through meditations to help you on your own healing path. (Click here to get the meditation album that accompanies the book if you want to listen to my guidance.)
I hope my memoir about trusting in the healing path inspires you on your own journey toward happiness!
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