Hi Spirit Junkies! This week’s vlog is about releasing fear in romance. In this vlog I share my own spiritual path for recovering from romantic fear. I hope this video helps you begin to release old patterns and clear space for love.
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Thanks for that reminder of “fleeting moments of healing.” I’ve had several of those fleeting moments throughout the past two weeks & when I go into the next hour or day and that anger comes back, my ego takes me back down. That “fleeting moment of healing” quote you speak of here is so beyond perfect timing. Thank you ~ing from my ~ing. 🙂
🙂 happy it helped
Gabby:
Probably the greatest gift I have received from you is the idea of bringing an intention into my life that is coupled with an element of service. The dual nature of asking the universe for a gift while sharing that gift resonates deeply with me and has made me consider the deeper meaning and relationship that I want to forge with everyone and everything around me. Big love.
Julia
big love to you too
Thank you so much Gabby. I cannot tell you how much I NEEDED to hear this today. Right Now. I have so much to release. And so much to work on myself. Thank you x
thank you for being such a bright light ! you’re always there with a beautiful vlog and reminder to choose love and have faith in love. practice, practice, breathe, practice!
Can not wait for livestream medidating –
hope your week’s a beautiful one.
psyched for mediDATING too!
Good post! I love it when you share your personal stories with us, Gabby and would love to see more of that on your vlog!
As entrepreneurs, it’s easy to use our businesses to avoid dealing with romantic fear.
We tend to get caught in the trap of pouring ourselves into our businesses to avoid looking at how we’re contributing to our perpetual state of singleness.
ahhh so true.
hard to see it in black and white, but yes – from a fellow work-o-holic… Let’s learn to change that!
Finding that balance to love all and not separate is extremely hard…thanks for the reminder! Definitely work in progress as I read Spirit Junkie. Thank you for your positive vibe : )
🙂
Hi Gabby,
I feel like I am actually really good at identifying my patterns….maybe even too good:-) I have been in a relationship for 3.5 years and I am having a hard time deciphering between how I feel and what I think. My pattern lately is finding something wrong with the person I’m with, (or situation I’m in,) and I’m not sure if there’s really something wrong, or if I’m just focusing on the all that’s wrong. I’m probably way too in my head too.There is a lot of right but that’s where I don’t know if I’m just taking things for granted or if the relationship has run it’s course. How do you know if it’s your heart or head speaking to you? Can you just DECIDE to choose the person and deal with things that are “wrong”? Is the decision all it takes?
these are things coming up for me now. I’m not sure if I’m co-dependent because this is my first real relationship. but I did use to choose guys that were unavailable (probably based on some tiny mad idea) and made them “special”.
Help! and Thank you!:-)
Dana
People come into your path for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do with that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a dificulty…
To provide you with guidance and support…
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually…
They may seem like they are a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die…
Sometimes they walk away…
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand….
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled…
Their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has now been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON.
Because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons.
Things you must build upon to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life…
Whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime
~ unknown author
Hi Gabby! Watching this I thought to myself.. I don’t make any relationships more important than others.. Then I realized while I don’t put romantic relationships on a pedestal, I actually put them down and am distrusting of them. I sabotage my romantic relationships because somewhere inside I think they are evil or not worth the effort. Going to try to look at them differently and open myself up.
good work! keep looking at that:)
Wish I could join the medidating group! I’m flying to Cartagena for my boyfriend’s sister’s wedding on Wednesday.
Will this be offered again sometime soon? 🙂
the video will be available soon:)
Gabby,
I was wondering how you choose which book/meditation to focus on at one time. I have your book and also marianne williamson’s. I love both of them. Also I have the medidating album and I am wondering if it is helpful to do more than one track at a time or just one? Thank you so much.
<3
let your intuition guide you:)
I noticed this very thing of withholding love from some and not others, especially with family members (withholding love from them). This is all changing and it truly is taking a deliberate intention of not loving some more than others. The shift is happening! What you said in your VLOG rings true for me and I’m ready to be more conscious of this.
Much love,
Meg
i love this one.
thank you
xo
Ah the truth in what you say! I too am a recovering person and the idea of giving up my drinking, smoking and crazy life was not possible until I really wanted something else your myself. I have always depended on others in my life to complete me and then complain when I am disappointed. Standing on my own feet and creating a life that I want is the task at hand. Not based on ego but on love. You are helping me to keep moving down the road. Thanks.
Does this mean marriage is a bad thing? If you are married to someone, aren’t you committing to love them more than someone else? Or do you mean that when you love everyone, including yourself, and you see everyone as? light/divinity, that you have more to give to your marriage because you lose all of the blocks that keep you from giving more to that person? I would love to hear your thoughts on this 🙂 So much love and gratitude <3 Namaste ~
Hey Gabby,
Thanks for an awesome video. One the most effective and lasting ways to mitigate or even eliminate romantic fear is to create your very own dating adventures connecting deeply to your sensual feminine essence. It’s profoundly healing to learn how to let men adore you. As well as off the charts fun;)
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