How to Attract Love and Stop Comparing Your Relationship Status

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Note: I updated this post in November 2018 for clarity and additional resources.

This week we celebrate Valentine’s Day! As sweet as February 14th can be, it can also be a stressful experience. For many folks, Valentine’s Day brings up a ton of funky feelings, whether you’re in a relationship or not.

One of the worst ways the ego takes us down in romance is by comparing our relationship status to other people’s.

How to stop comparing your relationship status

In the video and post below I talk all about how to let go of comparison and feel great about your relationship status right now! I also share heart-opening tips for raising your vibration so you can attract more love into your life.

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Become mindful of how you’re comparing

The energy of comparing blocks you from attracting what you desire. Maybe you’re in a relationship and you’re comparing your relationship to other relationships. Maybe you’re single and you look at people in relationships and think, “I’m never going to have that.”

This is a major block when it comes to manifesting great love and beautiful romance. I want you to become mindful of how you’re comparing.

Give more of what you want to receive

There is nothing sexier than my authentic truth | Mantra from The Universe Has Your Back card deck by Gabby BernsteinWhen you start to get clear around what you’re comparing yourself against, understand that that’s an area of your life where you think you are lacking. If you feel like you’re lacking because you don’t have that romantic partner, my suggestion is to become extremely romantic with yourself. Take yourself on a date, give yourself a beautiful gift. Make yourself a beautiful meal, and really commit your spiritual practice.

Recognize that your connection to spirit can become your greatest relationship

In my book Spirit Junkie, I talk about how spirit became my boyfriend. I was focused on igniting that place within me that was so inspired, so fulfilled, so supported and so excited through that relationship to my inner guidance system and through spirit. I can genuinely say as a result of building that relationship, I was able to attract the partner who is appropriate for me, the partner who is my love.

That is a direct reflection of my spiritual condition. And then when you’re in a relationship, you want to make sure that spirit is still your boyfriend or girlfriend, because you want to make sure that you are maintaining that energy, and maintaining that vibe of love and self-respect and self-admiration as you enter into a partnership.

Start MediDating!

If you are ready to blast open to fearless romance, check out MediDating! This 11-track meditation album guides you to let go of romantic illusions, overcome fears and insecurities, activate your attracting power, and manifest that perfect partner into your life.

Get Medidating here!

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  1. Hi Gabbie,
    I would love to purchase the medidating mp3 album or cd but unfortunately this is not possible at amazon.de of amazon.com as I live in the Netherlands. There are restrictions ons buying this from the Netherlands; Amazon music is not available in the Netherlands. Is there Ny other way I can purchase it?
    Lots of love,
    Stefanie

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  4. Hi Gabby, I’ve just started watching your videos last night & I’m so grateful to God that I have! I wonder why I haven’t watched them earlier, because pretty sure I had been coming across your links in my spiritual wanderings online for the past year. Now I can’t wait to listen to your other longer vids and learn more :).

    I’m posting under this particular vid because I wonder if there’s a talk from you somewhere about having friends who insist on comparing, especially married friends who treat single friends like they are sorry for them and they are not equal anymore. I have a couple of friends that I’ve known for more than 20yrs. We had lots of fun when we were younger, but since they’ve been married over a decade ago, the regard had never been quite the same. And of course I can understand that about them being moms and all. I am even the godmother of their eldest kids who I am fond of.

    But then comparison about me not having what they are having, especially from one of them, always creeps in from time to time. Years ago I observed and theorized that women who do that are the ones who have so much wanting from their marriages. Added to that the incessant compulsion of some to compete in every way, which I’m totally not a big subscriber of. I have actually tried asking them what they think about people who do it without sounding off like they are being attacked. But their standpoint is the only standpoint they know and want for the rest of their lives, it seems. I usually say what I really mean. But I chose to give it up to preserve our friendships.

    It makes me sad that it always comes across like we can no longer be grown up girls just hanging out anymore. That obviously created distance as we found different groups to be with as the years went. Moreso that I’ve learned to believe that I should only be with people who make me feel good about being myself, since life is just too short to insist otherwise. But still, I wonder if there’s a better way to deal with this than just ignore on most times that these married women are among my long time friends.

    Thanks so much, for your insights, Gabby. I’ve just seen your awe-inspiring part in the awesomeness fest. And I’ll be watching your SuperSoulSunday guesting tonight. I really excited about what I will hear. You are truly a gift.

    All for the glory of God.

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