Working with others can be an ego nightmare. Our ego loves to compare ourselves to our coworkers, judge them, hold grudges and gossip.
Whether you have difficult relationships with certain coworkers or just want a more supportive and harmonious work environment, these spiritual tips will help you see your coworkers through the lens of love!
In this video I share my Spirit Junkie tools for creating more positive connections with your coworkers! Learn to let go of resentments and experience miraculous shifts in your workplace.
Hi Gabby, I’m going to watch your video later as I am unable to watch it at the moment. I know your video will help me but in case you can say a special prayer for me (sorry to ask!) but I was recently off work relating to stress as I was working with Covid nurses, and I came back after five weeks but the nurse I now have to work with is an absolute bully. I do the admin for the team and they are all split up now. I have only been in 3 days and she has already reported me to senior managers 3 times for supposedly doing things wrong (which I haven’t), and she monitors my every move. Considering I was off with stress and anxiety, I went straight back into stress mode and haven’t been able to sleep because of a bad stomach. I very stupidly thought I could confide in a male nurse I have started working with but he reported what I had said to her (which wasn’t very much) and now she is trying to organise a disciplinary for me. I have just gone onto a new contract which they always attach a probationary period to so she knows I am potentially on the ropes, and her glee is obvious. I am very frightened as there are no other jobs at the moment and I need this job. The area I live in is very close minded and parochial and they are very difficult to get along with but I have managed to survive with my positive attitude. You notice I say survive and not thrive. Please can you tell me what to do and I will watch your video later. Thank you. Ann
Sending you positive vibes, Ann. Here are some additional posts and practices to help you navigate this situation:
https://gabbybernstein.com/create-healthy-boundaries-protect-energy/
https://gabbybernstein.com/cut-the-cord/
https://gabbybernstein.com/release-story-victim/
xoxo
Why do I find this only now?! This is exactly what I just needed. Thanks so much 🙂
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Hi Gabby,
Great timing. I have been struggling with my boss lately. The sales are down in the company where I work for and she’s very stressed blaming it on anyone and everyone (including me even if my job doesn’t impact directly on sales). I have been feeling horribly stressed, nervous and angry for the past few days and this is probably not helping in any way. I will try to apply your tools this week. I’m hoping to see (I need to see) a miraculous change. Thank you Gabby!
Gabby,
I was wondering, when you pray for people to have the same happiness as you and everything, when you overcome all this suffering and problems you have with others, does that necessarily mean that they will have changed and achieved the same happiness as you as well? I can see the way in a workplace where if they’re not a vibrational match they could end up transferring to another department or changing jobs, but what about family, where you are tied to?
-Catt
PS. You look so gorgeous with the nice fancy lighting!! 🙂
Thank you! my husband needed this desperately! I will pass it along to him and others.
Namaste!
What a great video sista, I find these tips really useful, time to put them into action! -Much love and light beautiful! 🙂
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Thanks a million Gabrielle.
The visual is stunning.
Arohanui.
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Thanks so much Gabby! I am actually dealing with a horribly negative person within my son’s soccer club, and I am going to use this on her. It’s a sad situation, and her negative actions have forced me to make the choice not to be friends with her anymore.
This v-log has come at a perfect time for me. My assistant has recently tried to get me fired by going over my head to my boss over something petty. Although the experience was hurtful and quite frankly pissed me off, I still need to be his boss and mentor. Thanks to my Spirit Junky practice I can honestly say I come to work with nothing but love and support for him and my entire team. Thanks Gabby!
I came home from work, full of anger for my co-workers and found this. Thank God!
Thanks Gabby! Its like you were watching me at work these last few weeks getting crazy with my own funky crap and calling it someone else’s. I absolutely LOVE the straight up way you talk about stuff.Time for me to get REAL.
I started a new position w a company I’ve been w for a year. A new guy starts and does way better than anticipated. I’ve had to check my attitude around him b/c I’m envious. This was exactly what I needed to hear! My ridiculous ego!
LOVE this Gabby!!! So very true!!! It feels so good to clean out the yuck…thank you for the reminder!!!
Hi, thank you for the vlog, it really helps me a lot to really improve myself and how I see the world.
This is just great, I am now so positive that i will be enjoy working more!
Thanks lots?
These are great tips Gabby, thank you. I love this whole aspect of asking yourself where are you feeling lack, negativity or disbelief in yourself. What a powerful aspect of personal responsibility! xo
Uh, i resonated so much with your vlog today! I work in an office consisting of all females and one male (who pretty much tunes us all out). Talk about funky crap and we are all bringing it:) I have been working on this for some time as I have, what i percieve a bully, and have noticed when i go in questioning myself or feeling insecure she can smell it! I have realized that I have been allowing this to go on for so long. When I go to the office feeling confident and with a positive attitude and with kindness and compassion in my heart the energy shifts and others feel it. It’s a beautiful thing. Be the change you want to see in the world. Love this community! Thanks Gabby;)
ugh! I’m trying to be patient and helpful. I was hired a month ago, but the person who is in charge of me is not training me or giving me a schedule. In fact is not allowing me to do anything other that sit there on her days off. The person who did hire me is also out of the office all of the time. I don’t know what it is I am supposed to do other than dust shelves or help customers. I could look at the internet all day, but feel like I’m a waste of space in doing so. I am highly qualified to run this boutique and I just want to be valued for my skills. This woman is shutting me out. Help!
Great Vlog! And great advice for dealing with challenging coworkers. Thanks for reminding me that however you feel about someone or something is always a reflection of how you feel about yourself. And the difficult coworker, or even difficult friend or romantic interest are there to teach you about yourself and help you learn and grow.
Thanks again!
As always, your message comes at just the right time gorgeous. I am about it head back to the mountains of Australia for last last bartending stint before I start focusing on my own business. Last winter, I wasnt treated very well. But already I am starting to pray and send blessings to my employers. I affirm that my income is increasing and that my bosses respect me and appreciate my work. This is so important. If I project that I{m going to get back there and have a shitty time, I most likely will. Im coming into this work environment with a lot more patience and compassion this time, and Ive got the likes of you, Louise Hay and Wayne Dyer to thank. Cheers woman!
Wow….I am really realizing the negative sh** that I bring in. Whoa…didn’t realize. I set myself up for failure and guess what I get? I work for myself and often feel like the outsider with clients/vendors, etc. Well duh….I put myself in that space. Thanks, GB, for some profound realizations here! Wow!
Hi Gabrielle, thanks for the vlog about co-workers I am a nurse and find it really hard to be able to connect to people at work. I will try these tools you provided. Thanks so much, rock on sister!!!!!!!
I tried this so many times with my co workers, never worked so I quit my job and I am happier than ever looking for new experiences
This one really hit home. Thank you so much for sharing.
Hey Gabby, I love how you talk about praying and intending for others what you intend for yourself. I’ve never thought of it like that before, but it makes all the sense in the world and has actually brought me a new sense of clarity and release that I’ve been seeking. Thank you!
I so rarely am required to work with anyone who frustrates me that I’m a bit out of practice when I’m called to do the spiritual work of collaborating with others I’m not in sync with! Thanks for simple reminders that will help me quickly turn the energy around into the bubble I wanna create around.
EXACTLY what I needed to hear today. Loving the synchronicity. Thanks Gabs! xo
Wow! Sychronicity! I was just trying to work out how to respond to an email from my biz-partner that made me really anxious (and if I’m honest a bit angry and blue!). I can apply all of these timely messages. Thanks again Gabby- I am so excited to see you talk in London on Sunday!! X
This video was really useful to me, just now when I’ve just had a row with one of my husband’s best friends. I realized that in some way I contributed to trigger that row and I learned that we should be more alert and more concsious of our actions, gestures and attitudes because many times we behave reacting to things and we are not aware of the energies we are sending out. Thanks for your video
Thanks Gabby for this great reminder that our actions cause a reaction in others and if we approach others positively and from a place of love this paves the way for positive interactions.
Thanks Gabby ! Love this. I am guilty of throwing blame onto people. I am also guilty of thinking negative thoughts of other people I work with. I am going to make a concious effort to clean up my side of the street and bless these people around me. Have a beautiful day. xo
Holy! Gabby, are you in my head!!!???
This morning was a S*&% storm of negativity with coworkers. I totally need to clear the air. Going to right now and I will let you guys know who it goes.
XO, Emily Love
Great tips for ALL relationships, I’m thinking of personal ones myself. Love your vlogs Gabby, thanks for all you do!
Gabby, amazing as always! Keep up the great work!!
Thank you. Good timing. It was a family interaction that had a major trigger for me, though the topic may have been not exactly on target…your good vibe, positive interpretation was helpful in the SHiFT that can happen.
you can apply these tools to any relationship:)
Thanks- this was just what I needed. I am about to answer some emails from a person with whom I have had prior friction. I am going to send positivity and wish him all the happiness that I wish for myself. Great vlog! 🙂
enjoy the miracles
Hi Gabby – this couldn’t have been more timely for me! I am struggling with my work environment right. My response to discord and dysfunction has been to walk around feeling very resentful and like a wounded animal at work, isolating myself like crazy and it has been serving me in no way, shape, or form! Thanks so much for applying Spirit Junkie to working with others! xoxoxo
Thanks – great information that I will began using today
love your advice and positivity!!! 🙂 🙂
woo hoo!
Great vid, especially for those of us returning to work after the long weekend. I am the 3rd employee in a start up and totally needed this to remind myself that sometimes its what I’m putting out that draws the reactions I’m getting whether it’s from coworkers or clients. And that I need to mind my own sideof the street and let others mind theirs. Have a beautiful day love!
the timing was great right?!
thank you dear sister,for sharing this vloga,and being so consistent in doing so:) I loved the prayer :)that u meentioned
Have a beautiful day:)
Thank you for this …. I am having a really difficult time with my co-worker, and this helped me to see what I can do to see the situation in a new light. I need to be more patient right now at work, and I am exactly where I am supposed to be right now. Great vlog Gabby!
Monday’s have new meaning to me Gabby ! I …always look forward to your Vlogs ! Thanks :=)
I work for myself but can use these tips around being my own best friend in the office- sometimes I can get caught up and forget!!